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IMPERFECT ME STILL IS IMPERFECT

2011-10-12T12:15:00.004+08:00

Ever heard of the word MEIZITANG? Read along and learn its relevance in love and relationship...

Everyone of us wants to be perfect especially in the eyes of our one true love. We do almost everything possible to look good for them, to fit their character, to love the same hobby, to be who they want us to be. Though in actuality there are times that we go overboard. We see ourselves lacking when they already are far more than contented and pleased with what we are.

STILL.

It's but natural that we feel that we are imperfect. People are people. Nobody can have everything. And so we see in the other what lacks in us and others see in us what lacks in them. Most often though, we see the physical attributes. The body is mostly seen when you think of romantic involvement. And so comes diet, exercise and all those other slimming options available in the market. Meizitang Diet is among the popular ones that most people lean to when they are in need of a lift in their weighing scale. This slimming capsule is said to help in reducing fat tissue. It accelerate fat metabolism and reduce absorption of fatty acids in the intestine. From the very name Meizitang you would know that it is Chinese in origin. Yes, t is composed of natural herbs but be wary that they also has side effects that can be harmful especially to pregnant women, infants, children under 18 years, those over 65 years old, hypertensives, suffering from heart ailments/cardiovascular disease, kidney and liver failure. As always, we seek professional guidance and consult before intake of any drug/medication.

In the eyes of a love one, you will always be perfect no matter the imperfections. But you can be a little vain or inclined to health to want to lose excess weight. And if you need to...why not use Meizitang if your doctor agrees?

MARRY YOUR FRIEND

2011-10-12T12:13:00.001+08:00

"If there is such a thing as a good marriage, it is because it resembles friendship rather than love."

- Michel Eyquem de Montaigne

ARE YOU A SPORTY COUPLE?

2011-09-27T07:47:00.013+08:00

More often than not, it's the men that gears up and enjoy their sport. It is a fact that their time is divided into work, mingling with friends, their sport and you. Unfortunately, the part of "you" at times are the left off of their time for the other endeavors. It's almost next to begging to drag them away and have time for you.

Giving up, women now learned to use this time their men alott on sports to be theirs as well by learning the sport he loves or to at least get him to join you in finding one that interests both of you. Not only is this a great way to strengthen the relationship but also a great advantage to health and a great time to cool down and relax. It could be an indoor activity or an outdoor if preferred, the important thing is that there is a change in routine, a set of new topics to divulge on, an added excitement to your relationship that breaks boredom or commonality on your day to day event. Plus the proven fact that adventure, exercise and sports releases the addictive love hormone, Endorphins. It makes everything more positive around each other with this feel good hormone.

Usually couples choose outdoor activities for the change in scenery. From biking, hiking,running, snowboarding, skiing and the likes. And you see them with Camelbak Pack. It should not just "pack up and go". Your comfort and your safety is important. For sporty people, common focus is on hydration. This is after all a key to good performance, stability and continuance. With Camelbak they can rehydrate without the trouble of stopping, fishing out a drink and quench thirst. Athletes, outdoorsmen, and soldiers around the world recognized and appreciated the hands-free system and uses it to their advantage. Why have anything less when you can have more with this originator and world leader in hands-free hydration system?

How nice would it be to do the thing you and your better half enjoy comfortably and in style! Not only will you now have more time together but also continue learning more about each other.

HE LEFT ME

2011-09-27T07:27:00.007+08:00

How can you be whole again when your better half left you?

Years you have been together sharing everything. He is your best friend. He knows every tiny bit about you no other knows. He knows what goes on in your mind, he knows what to do to cheer you up, he knows when you are disappointed or if you will be pleased...sometimes he even know you better than you know yourself. And he left...

It's almost being dependent on him. You expect him to hug you when you get cold that you tend to forget to bring a wrap when you go out. You are certain that you will get a foot massage for the long standing up you had to do early today. And he left...

At some point, you just developed the fact that he is and will always be there for you. There will be someone to change the light when it get busted. He will fetch you wherever you are when you are stranded if just to accompany you. Be the escort you are proud of whichever event needs escorting. And he left...]

You have finally given your heart and your soul...content that you have him. And he left...

What's heart wrenching is that he left you though he do not want to. He passed away. He fought to stay and continue being your escort, your companion, your wrap, your everything. He left and you are left behind. Now you look back and say to yourself, if only you are there for him as he is for you. If you only have used every opportunity given you to be perfect for him.

SO FOR YOU WHO STILL HAVE HIM...START USING THE GOLDEN OPPORTUNITY GIVEN YOU TO BE LOVED AND LOVE BACK AS IF THERE WILL BE NO TOMORROW.

KEEPING IN CLOSE TOUCH WITH YOU

2011-08-29T22:01:00.001+08:00

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HEAT AND BURN

2011-07-07T12:05:00.004+08:00

We have to admit that we usually correlate heat and burning with metabolism. And related to it is physical activity. Between couples that meant “fun way of burning those excess calories”. But research says...It’s sizzling hot in the room and yet you don’t burn as much calories. One interesting article from Dole Nutrition Institute focuses on “boosting metabolism by braving cool temperatures”.

Energy expenditures were monitored for 15 men (average age 26) and 10 women (average age 32) as they alternated 12-hour periods in rooms heated to either 80 degrees or 60 degrees. The surprising finding: Exposure to 60-degree temperatures resulted in a 6% increase in calories burned without significant changes in physical activity. Moreover, exposure to lower temperature also resulted in a 13% increase in fatty acid levels in the blood, indicating that fat stores were being mobilized.

At work is thermogenesis: the conversion of calories to body heat. A similar dynamic was demonstrated in one German study where drinking 17 ounces of water increased metabolism by 30%, as increased energy was needed to heat the water to the body’s temperature. So, how can you use temperature to turbocharge your weight-loss efforts? Indoors, let your body acclimate to a cooler environment. Outdoors, exercise during cool weather without bundling up (e.g., shorts instead of sweats). By exposing your arms and/or legs you will not only burn more calories – you may augment your vitamin D levels by letting your skin soak in sunlight (which triggers vitamin D production).

One note of caution: If you’re prone to high blood pressure, exposure to cold temperatures could increase your vulnerability to heart attacks so exercise moderation in taking advantage of cool calorie-burning effects.

Dole DNI concern for the increasing prevalence of obesity was the reason for compilation of articles such as the one above. Dole Nutrition Institute Jennifer Grossman head starts with her innumerous editorials and television guesting’s that which focuses on Dole’s Summer Campaign on Nutrition and Health. “Feed the world with knowledge” is the main concern and so Jennifer Grossman Dole Nutrition Institute tries to reach far and wide to encourage people on the importance of fruits and vegetables in the diet, in addition to many other advices to combat obesity world crisis. Any that could be advantageous like the aforementioned “boosting metabolism by braving cool temperatures”. The passion of Jennifer Grossman to share this to others is something we should have as well. And in our own little way imitate the Jennifer Grossman Dole that which spreads the word through her publications and spread in our own way in our blogs, social networks or even by word of mouth.

SMILE AND MAKE OTHERS SMILE

2011-07-05T10:48:00.008+08:00

None other than Nat King Cole advicing people to SMILE...

Smile though your heart is aching
Smile even though it's breaking

Smile, what's the use of crying?
You'll find that life is still worthwhile
If you just smile

It lightens up the mood, it brightens up the day. Not just for you but for others that passes you by. SMILE is contagious. It's so easy to give that you almost need not make an effort to do so. And it comes back twice as nice because in your heart you knew that you shared something. You knew that you are not a snob and the other person knows it. And you knew that somehow you have a friend in that person for returning it.

It is very seldom that a smile is not given back. What are you to lose to smile? In fact there is everything to gain. You relax your facial muscles, you practice humanity, you encourage friendship, you pass common good, you make your day happier, you contribute to a peaceful society, you make others feel as good as you feel.

You are not seeing that someone face-to-face and yet you can still share a smile. Share SMILE QUOTES that can travel down the wire and make the heart fuller, send a message with a smiley to go with it in your mobile phones or websites for it to represent you, talk with a smile in your face though just on the phone for that someone at the other end of the line to hear the smile in your voice.

Pass along the smile...be happy and let everyone else around you be happy.

LOVE IN HIS EYES

2011-07-05T10:39:00.003+08:00

"Do you love me because I am beautiful, or am I beautiful because you love me?"
- Cinderella

Physical appearance is a factor to loving someone but that is not all there is to it. We love because of the person that he is. We love someone "despite of". But more often than not, attraction that starts with the interest to look give way to knowing that someone more and in the end love blossoms.

And love makes us glow. Contentment and happiness makes you smile more, be positive and be nice to everything and everyone around you...therefor making you beautiful in the eyes of everyone else. Those in love are inspired to look good...and they do than when they are not.

FOR RICHER, FOR POORER

2011-05-10T07:37:00.006+08:00

We heard these words, some even uttered them already. And the facts of life tells us that we can be on these situations. Those two status however need not be unmanageable. YOU CAN MANAGE THOSE FINANCES. The trials your relationship faces need not be the reason for hurting what you have tried so hard to build. Think back how blissful it was when you were madly in love with each other, when after those months the engagement happened because you cannot wait to proclaim to the world that you belong together, and that wedding...when you thank the heavens that this time "life would be so much better" because you will not be alone. There will be another half of you to face the world, winnings or loses, you have another clasping your hand to share the joy or the tears with.

The same goes with finances. You have someone with you, you are not alone. And there actually is another to continue to push up your hope and ease off your burden. The debt management UK can be there to hold the relationship together. There's no need to stress yourself thinking of a way out of those debts, how to manage it, what is the best way to do, etcetera. What you need is the help of experts in assessing all of them. Financial solutions will be provided, debt consolidation to simplify your finances and the likes, things your confused mind cannot digest anymore. Make it easy on you. Make it easy on your relationship. And anything that comes smooth, with less stress, will not make the treasured relationship suffer.

DANCE IN THE RAIN

2011-05-10T07:21:00.006+08:00

Nothing is too weird to LOVE. Anything you do with the love of your life means a lot. You don't see playing tag in the beach too childish, you don't feel foolish wearing exactly the same clothes and stick with one another as if you're Siamese twins, you don't get bothered dancing in the rain...you simply don't think of what others may think as long as you're both happy and that what you are doing is strengthening the bond that you mean to keep bonded forever.

Yes, these foolish things others believe they were were not foolish at all. They are wise things to do to keep the relationship going and to continue to create spark and interest with one another. These activities you do are common to friends, and you are friends! It is a way of continuously knowing one another because as you start of a relationship there are still so many to learn about each other. You want to know the other as deeply as you can so you both can gauge the adjustment you both have to make to be perfect for the other, or to simply know if you did found the perfect match of living your forever with someone who can fit with who you are.

NO ONE IS TOO SHORT TO DATE!

2011-05-03T12:00:00.009+08:00

Who says being short is a hindrance to finding someone to date and to love? Definitely not me, nor this short people club.

If you ask me, I honestly can tell you that more often than not, it is just us thinking the negative. We are so self conscious at times that we decide it on ourselves that "there is no use". Even with this height issue. How can you think that your height matters? Well, not to all. And there is just a great percentage of the population having the same height as you do, or maybe even shorter. And there also are some who prefers petite ladies no matter how tall the other is. The body is made to fit, and so does the thoughts and the heart.

Short men is never hopeless unless all you do is talk about being short. Be who you are and your confidence will bring out the best in you. Ladies are not always in for the height or the looks or the money. Ladies are in for the personality, the attitude, and how one carries himself. To them it is sexy being all those qualities you have even though you are below the height you hope to have. And to increase your chances of finding that peace with in you, why not meet short people and build confidence too? Either you date short people like you or if you're tall, date those cute short people many prefers. With short people dating you will find that short lovable one you are looking for. Someone that fits you perfectly! BUT REMEMBER ALWAYS...IT'S NOT JUST THE HEIGHT!!!

BRIDGE THE DISTANCE

2011-05-03T10:48:00.007+08:00

It seems that I see more and more family separated by miles stretch of land and water nowadays. People, no matter what the status in life is, goes abroad and stays there to work. And though it keeps them away from their family, they still do so due to the demands of the economy.

"Long distance love affair" therefore is even more common. Married and unmarried couples alike experience this difficult situation. BUT unlike before, this kind of love affair have higher chance of surviving now than before. Thanks to technology!!!

I remember during my childhood, it's snail mail and infrequent overseas calls due to its high cost. In our time, there's the text messaging that travels far and wide in seconds. Calls are cheaper. And the best thing that happened is now you can see each other while you talk to one another. Skype is one way of doing that. Not as busy as the Yahoo Messenger, the delay in Skype is way too little as compared to the other network. Video phone calls also is possible, but for me, it is Skype.

BACK HER UP

2011-05-03T09:39:00.014+08:00

Life indeed is stressful nowadays. We live in a fast pace environment, we twirl around a whirl wheel of activities. The moment we wake up until we turn off the lights at night, there almost is no stopping.

Women more today than women in the past centuries are up in their toes with all their responsibilities. If before it's just the family, the kids and the husband, and house chores...now its the family, the house chores,plus the demanding needs of the job to add to the family earnings. The man? Still, as before, just the earning a living, the job. LIFE IN THIS WORLD CHANGED...and so should we all.

In a husband and a wife, PARTNERSHIP is vital. But a woman was made to have a heart of a responsible mother and wife. It is within her to nurture and to care. But present economy demands that she also work. Highest pay is what we all look for today. And nursing job is one of the most popular. And if you show her this wonderful nursing scrubs it will give you that appreciation you deserve. Because these scrubs will somehow ease work a little with the comfort it provides. Free movement for the demands of her job will be less of a burden to her already stiff bones and muscles with all those stress. Inform her of http://www.blueskyscrubs.com/categories/Scrubs/Scrubs-for-Women/, that this is where to buy cheap scrubs and you will doubly please her with the help you are giving her in budgeting finances.

Back her up in everything she does and every pain, tiredness, burdens will all fly away. They will not matter because YOU ARE THERE FOR HER. And together you can have a happy family and strong relationship amidst all the world trials and hardships.

ONE HEART

2011-04-23T09:14:00.004+08:00

"We were given: Two hands to hold. Two legs to walk. Two eyes to see. Two ears to listen. But why only one heart? Because the other was given to someone else. For us to find."

Again, ONE HEART TO GIVE TO SOMEONE! Some one, not some two or some three but some ONE. And there lay in the problem the moment people decides not to follow. Their life and the lives of others they embraced into the circle of chaos and confusion loses peace.

Just because they broke balance. Just because they broke equilibrium. Just because they got greedy with the addictive effects of loving and being loved.

REMEMBER: Anything in excess is not good!

NEXT TO ENGAGEMENT

2011-04-14T17:24:00.004+08:00

It is all overwhelming, the friendship, then the relationship, then the engagement. You are blissfully happy and contented. But it does not end to that. It's not all courtship, sweetness and dating. Because after that it will be more than that. Much, much more than that. Because next to engagement will be marriage, commitment and responsibility. Next it will not just "you and me" but "you, me and them". The family. The children.

There will be a need to prepare yourself to let go of prioritizing yourself and your better half. You need to be prepared to forget yourself a little and focus on those tiny people that will solely depend on you. They will depend on you to take care of them. Provide them things they need and want. Those signature bags you buy for your collection and use will be changed to toddler backpack. And of course, you still wouldn't want less than the best. Not just anything, but these pretty ones that will be the envy of others. School will come and nap mats will be needed. Again, you kids have to be the best. Why have the least if you can have the best among the rest?

Still, we also have to consider that life is not that easy to live. You got to have better source than "just enough" because when you have a family to care for, you have to think one step ahead. Business like Embroidery Dallas to add to your monthly salary is ideal.

Again, It's not all courtship, sweetness and dating. Because after that will be marriage, commitment and responsibility.

WEDDING PICTURES

2011-04-14T17:13:00.005+08:00

WEDDING PICTURES are worth more than you can bargain for. After all it is a memory to keep. The once in a lifetime event that will keep poking you all through out your life together. How nice will it be to go back time and again to one of the happiest days of your life.

THIS IS YOUR DAY!!! Do not just make do with anyone. Do not put this memento in the hands of just any photographer. Instead put it in the hands of DAN RONALD DIGITALS. A good friend of mine I highly recommend. =)

LEARN GUITAR WITH HIM AND FOR HIM

2011-04-06T20:50:00.003+08:00

Lovey-dovey truly is engrossed with his guitar lessons, and you started to enjoy it yourself.

ONLY...you think that he is not getting factual promises to his learning expectations. How can you trust the guitar program that you truly will learn with their guidance when you are getting false promises. It may just be a total waste of time.

Were you being told that will be insanely good overnight? Or even just in 3 days? Promises like learning to play complicated solo's in no time? THAT'S SIMPLY UNTRUE! At times they give misleading information and in the end blame your incapability to grasp, but truth is, they have given you high hopes and false claims.

Start off with Guitar Superstars Review and from the very start know the TRUTH. You will be given expectations highly true. Know that YOU AND HIM will learn and enjoy...in the end will be able to play together which will strengthen the bond you have with each other.

SUMMER LOVE AFFAIR

2011-04-06T20:38:00.002+08:00

It's not a sin to hope...
You're not at fault to wish...

THIS SEASON MAY BE THE SEASON THAT WILL BRING YOU LOVE!

You may be hearing a lot of summer love affairs, especially to those who loves to go to the beach. This is a time to cool off, to unwind. Relaxation includes putting down of guards and defenses. Therefore making people more vulnerable, more accepting of what is and what can be.

Summer love affairs on the other hand sometimes ends the next season. And so it is advisable to get a clearer head. Protect your heart. Be smarter, be wiser...and let it be true love instead of just an affair.

FIND YOUR SOULMATE

2011-04-06T19:16:00.008+08:00

Do you believe in soul mates? That in this world we live in there is someone that has direct connection to you? Imagine meeting someone with the same line of thought as you! No more hesitations to what you can or cannot say, no more trying to like what he likes but be totally be loving it as much...because you are one and the same. He is your soul mate!

FIND HIM! FIND HER!

Give yourself the chance to be with that someone you deserve and who deserves you. Nothing more can complete you than the relationship who can fill the void and that special someone who can replace all the inconsistencies of life. But you cannot just wait...you have to pave the way for you and him to cross paths. And it is not impossible, in fact there has been so many instances already that HE MET HER. SHE FOUND HIM. Thanks to the best dating sites that became the key to that. Why waste your time and resources to just any? You never know, maybe you are going farther away instead. You just have to see though the comparison of dating site communication features for you to know which can give you best access to him. Communication is vital in the meeting process as well as the progression of the relationship. Don't settle to those dating sites that allows you only to have exchange of mails and messages with flirty icons. You need to be able to chat with them for more complete exchange of information and for you to be able to call each other also so you can express more and to know each other more.

YOU"LL KNOW...if only you will get the chance. So try and get the best chance with the best dating site to find your soulmate!

HEARTBREAKING STORY...

2011-04-06T09:09:00.004+08:00

What a way to start the morning!!! I was checking more than a thousand of my emails when I read this mail sent to my by a friend a week ago. SO NICE that it reminds us of what we should DO TODAY NOT TOMORROW and of how not to refrain from showing love to our love ones. SO SAD and inspiring story you should not miss. And so I am sharing:

Everlasting Love

One fine day, an old couple around the age of 70, walks into a
lawyer's office.
Apparently, they are there to file a divorce.

Lawyer was very puzzled, after having a chat with them, he got
their story....
This couple had been quarreling all their 40 over yrs of marriage
nothing ever seems to go right.

They hang on because of their children, afraid that it might
affect their up-bringing. Now, all their children have already
grown up, have their own family, there's nothing else the old
couple have to worry about, all they wanted is to lead their
own life free from all these years of unhappiness from their
marriage, so both agree on a divorce....

Lawyer was having a hard time trying to get the papers done,
because he felt that after 40 yrs of marriage at the age of 70,
he couldnt understand why the old couple would still want a divorce..

While they were signing the papers, the wife told the husband..
"I really love u, but i really cant carry on anymore, I'm sorry.."
"Its o.k, i understand.." said the husband. Lookin at this,
the lawyer suggested a dinner together, just 3 of them,wife thought,
why not, since they are still gonna be friends..

At the dining table, there was a silence of awkardness.
The first dish was roasted chicken, immediately, the old man took
the drumstick for the old lady.."take this, its your favourite.."

Looking at this, the lawyer thought maybe theres still a chance,
but the wife was frowning when she answer.."
This is always the problem, you always think so highly of yourself,
never thought about how I feel, dont you know that i hate
drumsticks?"

Little did she know that, over the years, the husband have
been trying all ways to please her, little did she know
that drumsticks was the husband's favourite. Little did he know
that she never thought he understand her at all,
little did he know that she hates drummsticks even though
all he wants is the best for her.

That night, both of them couldnt sleep, toss and turn,
toss and turn...after hours, the old man couldnt take it anymore,
he knows that he still loves her, and he cant carry on life
without her, he wants her back, he wants to tell her, he is sorry,
he wanted to tell her "i love you"...

He picks up the phone, starting dialing her number....
ringing never stops..he never stop dialing....

On the other side, she was sad, she couldn’t understand how
come after all these years, he still doesnt understand her
at all, she loves him a lot, but she just cant take it anymore....
phone's ringing, she refuses to answer knowing that its him...
"whats the point of talking now that its over...i have ask for
it and now i wanna keep it this way, if not i will lose face.."
she thought...still ringing...she have decided to pull out the
cord...

Little did she remember, he have heart problems...

The next day, she received news that he had passed away...
she rushed down to his apartment, saw his body, lying on the couch
still holding on to the phone...he had a heart attack when he was
still trying to get through her phone line....

As sad as she could be...she will have to clear his belongings...
when she was looking thru the drawers, she saw this insurance
policy, dated from the day they got married, with the beneficiary
being her... And together in those file, there was this note...

"To my dearest wife, by the time you're reading this,
I'm sure I'm no longer around, I bought this policy for you,
though the amount is only $100k, I hope it will be able to help
me continue my promise that i have made when we got married,
I might not be around anymore, I want this amount of money to
continue taking care of you, just like the way I will if I
could have live longer. I want you to know Iwill always be
around, by your side... I love you"

Tears flowed like river......

"When you love someone, let them know... You never know what
will happen the next minute.... Learn to build a life together..
Learn to love each other. For who they are.. not what they are..."

HE IS ALWAYS PANICKING

2011-04-04T14:50:00.003+08:00

"It has not been as severe before!"

Often, as people get older all the stress accumulates and they get more and more panicky even to simple situations that can be handled without raising their heartbeat, blood pressure or their breathing changed to grasps.

Anxiety is a normal part of life, but in cases that it gets serious, it has to be treated. If your husband is having this, it will make his life and yours, be miserable. There will be excessive and on-going worrying over not really serious stuffs, restlessness, irritability, muscle tension, tiredness, trembling, nervousness or easy to be startled.

Stop Panic Attacks as early as possible. This will save his heart from undue stress and both your lives a bit more jovial and easy.

Be aware that anxiety can be genetically acquired. It is one of those inheritance we wouldn't want to inherit. It can also be a physiologic problem. There may be an imbalance in the neurotransmitters than carries messages to the brain that alters the reactions to different situations. And as per mentioned on the early part of the post, environmental factors like childhood traumas and stress can lead to anxiety disorder or panic attacks.

Panic Away Program is one nice way to deal with excessive panicking and anxiety. Why suffer when you can go on with life without it.

SENSUALY YOURS

2011-04-04T14:36:00.004+08:00

As the previous post spoke of being a Great Wife...sensuality comes to mind and the need to keep the fire going.

We just have to admit that in a marriage, it is vital that the interest for one another do not die down. If before you vowed to love each other forever you can barely keep your hands off each other, the more should you feel inclined to do just that because you have all the freedom to do so.

It does not end to looking and smelling nice and then you get to tumble to bed. Feed the imagination, make both of you crave, feel the desire build...and this will not end with the act itself. Hours and even days after, the thought will linger. And so will the excitement for future surprises. MAKE IT WORTH WAITING FOR. Be creative, be naughty, be sweet...be different all the time. And you will find that it is not just him you are pleasing but yourself as well. Do not focus on the physical union alone...but the before and after as well.

DON'T BE "JUST" A HOUSEWIFE

2011-04-03T10:40:00.007+08:00

Yes, don't settle for being "JUST" a housewife. Be a great housewife!

This commonly is the reason why husbands tend to bend a little with their fidelity. That after a few years after marriage, the wife gets boring. From the well-dressed, all-the-time looking beautiful and smelling wonderful girl he met, you turned into the fairly looking wife that looks to be meant only for household chores. Perk up his interest every time. Make him see you as he sees you before. Dress up and prepare for his return from a tiring day at the office!

Aside from being his wife, be his pal. Go out on once in a while and do things he love. Fishing, golf, tennis? Try to find again those common interests that made you clicked before. Be his partner! His office may not be your domain as much as your kitchen is, but if you know better about concrete polishing extend your knowledge. Offices are like home to them as they are longer there than at your house. Suggest the widely appreciated polished concrete or stained concrete that most offices and residential have. You even probably have it at your own home. Aside from the superb look it does on the place, it is known for durability. The maintenance is also commendable as it is easier and more cost effective. Existing concrete floors is not a problem as it can resurfaced with the desired type.

What do you say, you can suggest this to anyone. With a Concrete Art-FX finish, gone were the dusty floors, moisture emitting concretes and the dull and lifeless floors.

In the end of it all, you will be the Great Housewife that you are!!

SAME FAITH, SAME FATE

2011-04-03T10:18:00.006+08:00

Is it possible that a couple have different views on faith?

Have you ever once met a couple who believes in different doctrine and survive a relationship? Some probably have tried working it out but it just never last, or if does, NOT in a fulfilled and contented way. They simply exist together but they do not live together. And it is not "loving" when you do not care enough to just let them be!!! Especially when in your belief, you know that you will not be together forever, due to the belief that he has.

Having mutual understanding and respect to the teachings equates to mutual way of living. The doctrines that serve as guide to living in the society and the path to salvation cannot be disregarded in how a relationship can work. Two individuals that love and care of each other starts to speak and act the same in just a few months. Some even comments that they start to look the same, probably due to the facial expressions one acquire from the other. In the same manner, the beliefs also molds to one. Either one accepts the belief of the other or vice versa.

Am I correct?

COMMUNICATION

2011-04-01T07:19:00.003+08:00

COMMUNICATION is a very special part of a relationship. Being able to tell someone how you feel, may it be reciprocated or not, gives you the contentment that you did something. You did your part.

The same goes for ones pursuit of livelihood. You need ways in verbalizing your goals and objectives; you need to spread the news of your existence; tracking of your target group; and to know how effective are you to them. And you need to keep being heard. To not be placed on the side but upfront all the time. With email marketing software you can continuously expect being remembered. You can have them sent newsletters, tip of the week, daily quotes...anything that will make you part of their lives; more like a simple poke. Unlimited emails can be sent and depending on your chosen plan varies the number of contacts and offers. And you can track of who opened your emails or who followed your links at the pre-scheduled/scheduled time.

Communicate...personally or through mails. Be glad that now technology makes it a lot more easier for you. And services such as email marketing to even do it for you.

GONE

2011-04-01T07:18:00.004+08:00

Hearbreak...
Tears
Sentimental...
More tears...
Resentment...
And more tears
Anger...
Drying tears
Letting go...
Dried tears
Acceptance...
Sigh

Peace!

DATE EWAN MCGREGOR, DATE A SCOTT

2011-03-29T12:23:00.003+08:00

You cannot just believe that love will come your way. What if it does not? What if it passes another route and missed seeing you at the waiting line? SEARCH FOR HIM. Search for the possibility that you will meet your soul mate, the love of your life. Find a way, create a path to make things work. And it is not just making yourself available to chance. Dating Edinburgh makes you available to the eyes of your probable partner in life.

He may not be on the neighborhood, he may not be within your circle of friends, he may not be in your work area. For all you know he may be half way across the globe. Another race, another eye color. A Scot. How would you feel if it was Ewan Mcgregor, Sean Connery, Dougray Scott or another of those gorgeous celebrity Scots, and you let it pass you by?

Life is full of surprises. Let this popular dating site surprise you with the HIM you are hoping for your him to be.

RECEIVE A BUNCH

2011-03-29T12:21:00.001+08:00

A woman is worth more than a bunch...
but it definitely will be appreciated to be given some.

RESULT: POSITIVE

2011-03-29T07:50:00.009+08:00

Your heartbeat is like hoof beats in the horse races men adore. Wild, loud, fast...racing! Your mouth drooped and your world turned upside down when you opened that piece of paper revealing the result you never thought you will be reading for a million years. You never thought you will be having such a test and it will read...

POSITIVE

For a time reality will not sink in just yet. Then as if you are in some game show and one by one it will be revealed to you. YOU HAVE IT. Flashing would be memories of the fun you have been having. Maybe you have been a little naughty, but maybe you were truly in love. Maybe you know he has it, maybe you don't. alright, analyze. Think it through. Then let it go.

Acceptance is what really matters. You have to concede to the fact that you cannot turn back time. You have it but IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD. Life can still go on. Listen and listen hard...

Positive Singles: You Are Not Alone!

Veneral Disease (VD) or Sexually Transmitted Disease(STD) are not alien words to our society today. In fact it is getting very common. Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Syphilis, Genital herpes, Genital Warts, HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis, Crabs are the most common STD's. Some of these can be cured with antibiotics if there is early detection. HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis, Herpes, and Genital Warts are those that cannot be cured but can be managed. They can, however, SPREAD.

And this is the reason POSITIVE SINGLES feels defeated when diagnosed to have it. Yes, that is the consequence but again IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD.

Positive Singles: You Are Not Alone!

You want to be with the people you will feel comfortable with. They who you believe will understand you more than anybody else. You would be surprise to find that you have more in common than just that earth shuttering result. Your preferences, your joy, your emotions, your beliefs...feel free once again. No guilt, no hesitations. Meet people. Meet them who makes you whole again.

LONG DISTANCE LOVE AFFAIR

2011-03-29T07:49:00.001+08:00

Can such a thing as a Long Distance Love Affair Work?

FOR YOUR WEDDING RECEPTION...

2011-03-25T16:15:00.006+08:00

When a couple decides to seal their bonds with wedding, it always is a dream come true to overdo it. It is after all once in a life time. An event that you will cherish forever as you will cherish loving each other. And it is pleasing both, and everyone else to the tiniest detail. If you have something to remember, remember it with a big smile on your lips and a bright glow in your heart.

The reception that follows the ceremony definitely is worth more than just the ordinary. You want it personalized, you want it how you have always wanted it to be. But there is just so much to think about. With your wedding coordinator or just with the help of your love ones, you can come up with the best wedding by seeking who offers the best. The wedding cake for one...it has to be the best. Be glad that there are wedding cake designs available that gives just the kind you want. A cake that is as special as your are. It has to be unique. It has to garner "ooh's" and "ahh's" and not "oh its like Annie's".

It is the time of the day to enjoy each and everyone of your special guests and the best way to thank them is to provide them for celebrating the occasion with you is to treat them with superb food. Look no further than the wedding food ideas that can trim down your wide array of likes to the best there is.

It's not easy to prepare a wedding...but it's a lot of fun if you just know where to look that best fits your preference.

BOTH WINS

2011-03-25T16:14:00.000+08:00

"Love is a game that two can play and both win."
- Eva Gabor

AFTER A SPLIT UP

2011-03-25T08:14:00.002+08:00

You almost can't believe this happening. After years of being together, your other half is not yours to keep any more. Your everyday routine of waking up to a sweet text message of "take care on the way to work", the phone calls at work, the lunch time dates, the awaited time of finally seeing him after work...all just suddenly changed and you miss all of it. You miss him.

BUT no matter how you feel your world up side down, you have to let go. He is not meant for you. That no matter how you want him back, you know that when you go back to him it will just be as before. The fight will recur, the broken hearts, the broken spirit. It is best for the both of you to separate and be whole again while you still both can pick up the shattered pieces of you the relationship did shatter.

But there's so much reminder of him at home. The years of exchanging of gifts expressing love and care is everywhere. But you have to admit that you don't want to give it away. You truly want those things. The beanbag by your bed you cuddle in while you watch a movie, a cabinet full of hug-able toys, the clothes...everything. It's just that you need more time to adjust first. Where can you keep it out of site for a time being? There is a place like Storage Reading Cow Lane where you can put them in without fear of losing them. They have varying sizes depending on need. It can be long or short term. You have a key access anytime. They even offer free van hire to pick up and deliver your stuffs.

What a nice idea to keep those things for the time being...until you're ready to face it all again without breaking down.

SEARCHING FOR "HIM"

2011-03-19T13:35:00.013+08:00

"I'm Okay!"

It seems that you're getting so used to saying it that even you are starting to believe it. But as you sat watching the deep orange horizon turns velvet gray and the noise of the day calming down to calmness, doubt started rising in the inner recesses of your soul. Am I really okay?

As if you need to make this unsettling feeling leave you and the serenity you felt earlier, you take a deep breath and exhale for it to ride with the chilly wind passing you by. Still, your heart seems to leak of the tears you hide beneath dry eyes. Why were you created with such a big heart when you have no one to give it to? Where is he?

Believing that the soul inside you have this yearning for its match, you feel the loss of someone. Not emptiness, but a fullness suppressed to the point of bursting out. You crave for a comforting hug, you thirst being the focus of someones undivided attention, you wish to be in that dream you had last night of staring back to someones loving eyes devouring you.

Yet life has to go on. And you have to spare yourself from misery therefore you decided to convince yourself and others that you're okay. Focusing instead on those things that keeps you busy and reminding yourself why you are so lucky...in minutes you smile and say "I'm okay!"

BUT...until when?

FLAMES

2011-03-18T09:01:00.006+08:00

Years have passed since you last have written FLAMES at the back of your notebook with your name parallel to the name of your crush. After picking out common letters between you two, you count each number of slashed letter for each of your names and add them together like you do in a math equation in school. The blush that comes up results from the corresponding letter you get as you do the counting in the word flames...F for friends, L for lovers, A for angry, M for marriage, E for enemy and S for sweetheart.

IF ONLY its as easy as the letters F, L, A, M, E, S!

In puppy love and teenage crush probably. But we are thousands of miles away from that kind of a relationship. We are now here in the stage of responsibility, commitment, and till death do us part. If there is something you are writing, its more of the signing of legal papers; and adding up of mortgages and bills payments are the common mathematical problems that is now being solved.

At times we tend to sigh and say, "How nice it would be to go back to a much simpler life."

YOU AND YOUR MAN

2011-03-13T12:33:00.003+08:00

Have you seen couples wearing the same of everything? Twins you may say. Its maybe their way of showing the world that they belong together. That they are already one and the same. That the similarity does not end with how they look but with what they like.

It may be from the same Guess attire, the same TechnoMarine watches, to the same Timberland boots, Timberland Stiefel and Timberland Schuhe. It is the comfort of knowing that you and your man attract. Not everyone can do this. Some does not want to be overly obvious. Some prefers uniqueness and having their own personal choice.

But everyone is unique in their own way. They like what you don't, hate what you do. What matters is that you and your man is comfortable in what you do as a couple and as an individual. You should not even try...it should come out naturally. Effortless. Then can you only say that you really do belong together.

TOO YOUNG

2011-03-08T01:40:00.000+08:00

A wonderful song me and my little one loves.

TOO YOUNG by Nat King Cole

They try to tell us we're too young
Too young to really be in love
They say that love's a word
A word we've only heard
But can't begin to know the meaning of

And yet we're not too young to know
This love will last though years may go
And then some day they may recall
We were not too young at all

[Instrumental Interlude]

And yet we're not too young to know
This love will last though years may go
And then some day they may recall
We were not too young at all

FOR PRIVACY

2011-03-08T01:14:00.002+08:00

You cannot very well post "KEEP OUT" or "DO NOT DISTURB" signs on all sides of your house. If you are trying to have privacy, you definitely go quiet about it and not get more attention by posting too obvious signs.

And when you say privacy, you are hoping not to be seen from the other side. You are hoping for other eyes to NOT have even a tiny peek of you sleeping from outside (or whatever else you're doing...wink!) And you will not be putting transparent curtains or may be dark but movable drapes that can easily sway with the incoming breeze if you want to be sure. Instead you will have these roman blinds that are used more and more for its beauty and purpose: privacy.

BE AS SPORTY AS HIM

2011-02-23T00:25:00.006+08:00

I never believed in "opposites attract". For me there should be similarities to your likes and dislikes for the relationship to last. Its not mere love. There has to be interest, there has to be communication...there has to be common grounds. Or else, in a matter of months boredom will settle in between, and that will in the end be the very reason for separation. Because love will not stay.

And so, notice how the women try to involve themselves in what their better halves love doing. More often than not it is SPORTS. They go out of their way to learn what that sport is all about, play the very game themselves if not master it altogether, or even to the point of learning (not actually necessarily joining) the famous bet on sports done between men just for the fun of it. During the game, they stay beside their man, cheering and shouting as if it is their own personal choice. Sacrifice and commitment, that's what it is. That at times they even convinced themselves that they truly are enjoying, but the truth is they are enjoying his time with her and his notice given her. May it be the season for the NFL, NBA, or whatever game he go crazy of...she is with him ALL THE WAY. Trying to be as sporty as him just so they will have more time together, something to talk about, something to be happy about.

Well...it works! If you truly love him, you'll try it!

WEAK by SWV (sister with voices)

2011-02-23T00:22:00.002+08:00

(Verse 1)
I don't know what it is that you've done to me
But it's caused me to act in such a crazy way
Whatever it is that you do when you do what you're doing
It's a feeling that I don't understand
'Cause my heart starts beating triple time
With thoughts of loving you on my mind
I can't figure out just what to do
When the cause and cure is you

(Chorus)
I get so weak in the knees, I can harldy speak
I lose all contol and something takes over me
In a daze and it's so amazing
It's not a phase, I want you to stay with me
By my side, I swallow my pride
Your love is so sweet
It knocks me right off of my feet
Can't explain why your loving makes me weak

(Verse 2)
Time after time, after time I try to fight it
But your love is strong, it keeps on holding on
Resistance is down
When you're around, cries fading
In my condition, I don't want to be alone
'Cause my heart starts beating triple time
With thoughts of loving you on my mind
I can't figure out just what to do
When the cause and cure is you

(Chorus)

(Cape)
I try hard to fight it
No way can I deny it
You're love's so sweet, knocks me off my feet

(Chorus)

(Breakdown)
(I get so weak)
Blood starts racing through my veins
(I get so weak)
Boy, it's something I can't explain
(I get so weak)
Something 'bout the way you do
The things you doo-ooo-ooo, it...
(Knocks me right off of my feet) - OHHHHHHH, off my feet
Can't explain why your lovin' makes me weak

...more like going crazy because of you!!!

YOUR LOVE NEST

2011-02-22T23:22:00.003+08:00

It is but natural that you dream of new homes as you plan your wedding. Or even prior to that. You think way ahead, you think of the future. You think of living with him (or her) FOREVER. Together forever in your own love nest. A place to call your own.

But it's not as easy as ABC. There are many things to consider, the perfect location, the sought after dream house and the budget!!! And who best to assist you than those who knows best about these sort of things. Remember also that it will be much easier for both of you to find which will both cater to your desires. There will be less stress, there will be more choices, there will be superb advices. Gone were the days that you do these things on your own. Why go into such troubles when you can do without them. Even of the house you vacate, they help in the selling.

And hey...have your own place than be with your in-laws. That's how its suppose to be if you want to continuously have peaceful life (hahaha!)

HE GOT HER YES WITH PERSEVERANCE

2011-02-22T23:16:00.002+08:00

"Fall seven times and stand up eight."
Japanese Proverb

I guess this is amongst those sayings that men who perseveres believe in. Such sayings motivates them into not giving up on the woman they love. They don't just easily give up. And inthe end they feel that everything is worth it.

MARKETING

2011-02-18T10:35:00.002+08:00

Are you a couple with a business? And I am pretty sure you are more into it than your business partner since you are browsing through about it here hehe.

One strategy to look into...is the web. Yes it is a marketing strategy. Try search marketing agency and see how you can attract more visitors to your site or possible clients to your business. They could help you in managing your site, maximizing the capability of your site in attracting clients like bees to honey and build bonds with them at the same time have total control over your business. it is not easy doing everything alone, you need help. You need guidance. You need every input you can have so why resist the chance to be assisted?

WHISPERING WAVES

2011-02-18T10:34:00.000+08:00

PHOTOGRAPHER MUST-HAVE

2011-02-13T23:01:00.001+08:00

This is a Sponsored post written by me on behalf of PhotoFlashDrive by Pexagon Technology. All opinions are 100% mine.

This latest find is truly worth a high five! The mere mention of Photoflashdrive.com to your photographer honey lovey will give you the well deserved notice you need that only he can fulfill. I'm sure he will appreciate you with ways only you and him knows (wink!)

Because the Photographer that he is will see the value of being the first to have a personalized photography flash drives with his own logo or studio name. What a way to spread the word of his name through his existing clients...an advertisement in the cheapest and unique way. flash drives for photographers are not too common yet these days but is starting to be known to most. And most of them uses Pexacon "Made in the USA". Storage for the pictures hat they have taken of their clients. A dozen, hundreds or thousands of hi-resolution images even. Photos to which their clients can keep for longer time and for easier access or posting in the web. With Pexacon he can have his name or logo engraved with additional 2 lines of text at the back constantly making his signature visible to the world.

There are different available styles and colors to choose from. From uniquely wooded, bright or colorful ones, to sleek, elegant and professional ones. And you get to have 25% discount! Truly affordable, and with no minimum order. Even now, I'm thinking of personalizing all my USB Flash Drives, Portable Hard Drives and all other custom products they might want to for me. How I itch to have those wooden USB flash drIves. Totally cool!

Wait no more. Please HIM...at the same time please yourself pleasing him. There even is an ongoing contest you might also want to join in. Check out the website and be among the firsts to show-off the creative you!!!

GREEN MIND, GREEN JOKE

2011-02-12T10:47:00.000+08:00

There are a lot of jokes that circulates amongst teenagers...and more often than not, they are green! And this I have read, and have heard once or twice already.

Sacrificing Spouse

The first guy said, "My wife, she thinks so much of me that she won’t let me do any work around the house. It’s incredible."

The second guy says, "That’s nothing. My wife thinks I’m God."

"She thinks you’re God? What makes you say that?"

"Easy. Every night she places a burnt offering before me."

BUSINESS MINDED SPOUSE

2011-02-10T10:50:00.003+08:00

Do you have one like my friends'? I have never seen anyone as business minded as this hubby of a friend. He simply have this keen eye for it. Almost anything around us, he can come up with a good, and prospering business. He simply have great ideas, and probably have so many contacts already that almost within a few days, he can make things work...like magic!

And what is admirable is how he comes up with attention getter logo's. It does not suffice to just have one. It has to be according to theme, it has to be unique and it has to be so conspicuous that people will definitely take notice. He shared his secret as to that one thing one needs for ones business to boom...A MAGNIFICENT LOGO. I found this web design logo you might want to check out. They would make your dream come true...a prospering business in no time!

BOND GET TIGHTER

2011-01-22T13:14:00.003+08:00

Bond gets tighter between better halves
as the wee one grows each day.
And it starts with the mere knowledge of its existence.
Pregnancy!

BREATHE by Faith Hill

2011-01-17T10:23:00.002+08:00

This is just the heavenly feeling of being with the one we love...a feeling we wish to be feeling all day, all night.

I can feel magic floating in the air
Being with you gets me that way
I watch the sunlight dance across your face
And I've never been this swept away

All my thoughts just seem
To settle on the breeze
When I'm lying wrapped up in your arms
The whole world just fades away
The only thing I hear
Is the beating of your heart

And I can feel you breathe
It's washing over me
And suddenly I'm melting into you
There's nothing left to prove
Baby all we need is just to be
Caught up in the touch
A slow and steady rush
Baby isn't that the way
That love's supposed to be
I can feel you breathe
Just breathe

In a way I know my heart is waking up
As all the walls come tumbling down
Closer than I've ever felt before
And I know and you know
There's no need for words right now

Cause I can feel you breathe
It's washing over me
And suddenly I'm melting into you
There's nothing left to prove
Baby all we need is just to be
Caught up in the touch
A slow and steady rush
And baby isn't that the way
That love's supposed to be
I can feel you breathe
Just breathe

Caught up in the touch
A slow and steady rush
And baby isn't that the way
That love's supposed to be
I can feel you breathe
Just breathe

I can feel the magic floating in the air
Being with you gets me that way

EYE-CATCHING LEGS

2011-01-16T01:08:00.002+08:00

Beautiful legs are an asset. It is something that should not be hidden. It is something to be proud of. And we have to admit that it is pleasing to know that our legs are eye-catching.

And you can make yours more apparent with pretty polly hosiery. The nearly 100 years of its existence had them learn and perfected every woman's need and preference. Wide selection of sheer and opaque hosieries are available for you to see yourself in depending on the need, the event, or the occasion you decide to wear one. Probably when you are in the bedroom needing to be seen in a sexy suspender tights, or out in the night wearing printed ones under your micro mini...or any other time when it is most appropriate.

I once saw a lady wearing this net-like tights in day light. One might think that it is most inappropriate since it is known to be worn at night. But then she carried it well with the proper combination of clothes and colors, and I tell you, it was truly remarkable. Another time I saw one who was wearing long skirt with slits, and underneath is a pair of amazing prints. It is somewhat a tickle to the eye to want to see them thus I noticed a man trying not to be obvious but very much interested to get a glimpse. It is a matter of what to wear and how you wear it. It can be flaunted and it can be partially hidden. And still, it catches attention. And it feels good!

Beautiful legs are an asset. Make it one by dressing it and making it more apparent.

SURPRISE HIM...SURPRISE YOURSELVES

2011-01-16T00:50:00.004+08:00

A few years have passed and you feel that the relationship you have with your partner is somewhat on a plateau. Yes it is comfortable. But it is dull.

You need to light it up. You need to do something to break the momentum. And it needs to be done not on a special occasion. It has to be on an ordinary day when you just go to work and head back home, have dinner, hit the sofa and in a while sleep the night away. Break the spell! File a leave for the day and prepare for a weekend get away, or an all night romancing that may last the whole weekend, or something to remind him of the you and him on your first months together. Nothing else could reignite that spark than to make time just for the two of you.

Surprise him by starting out with a gift. Not an everyday occurrence, right? Give him anything that will tickle his fancy. Running out of gift ideas? Try browsing though...there actually are a lot that you'll be surprise to find. The idea of the gift giving is to let the ball rolling. Then start pampering him like you used to. And then go on with the roll of tide...ride it with him and with the thought that this will definitely be a surprise for him today and be a surprise for you both days after for the effect it will do to your relationship.

TRINKET OF LOVE

2011-01-16T00:15:00.005+08:00

Remember those times long ago when you were still a giggling teenager who flush and blush at the site of your crush?

How easy it is to please us then. We thought then that we know the meaning of love by what a certain guy makes us feel. He gives us flowers and chocolates then we know he cares for us. He gives us a love letter and we claim he is a romantic and wants to spend time with us even just in letters. He gives you a heart necklace and we say he loves us. Puppy love is how our elders term the love we think is real.

We grew up...and still we thought that we know the meaning of love by what our man makes us feel. But this time we go to greater heights. We give back and more. At times he gives nothing and still we give more and more. And this time he gives you not just a trinket of love, but a child borne of love or child born for us to love. Then by this time we finally learned the meaning of love...to love and be loved FULLY without expecting anything in return. To love the totality of the person more than you love yourself. To love is to be everything for that person, and to make possible anything in your capability for that person...even to the extent of giving up your everything else.

LAUGH NOT IN MY BED

2011-01-16T00:06:00.002+08:00

As Woody Allen said, "Sex is the most fun you can have without laughing."

Couples have different preferences when it comes to sex. Some needs to have an adventure as a prerequisite, some heats up with an argument or battle of wits, some light and comfy, some intense romance, some even needing fun and laughter...but one thing that can never be is sharing those laughter during the heights of need. Yes it is fun, yes it is fulfilling. There comes a feeling of happiness and euphoria. But the moment that one starts to laugh during the act...the other feels distracted.

So, an advice...laugh before or after but not during!

TAKE A BREAK, HAVE A...

2011-01-14T09:37:00.004+08:00

...NOT JUST KITKAT BUT THE MUCH NEEDED WEEKEND BLISS!!!

See weekend breaks uk and have the delight of your life choosing where you and your better half would be staying for the weekend. Change of atmosphere, change of surroundings...a simple change always gives us the much needed break. Break from our daily routine, break from the usual sounds of the city, break from what is common.

Picture in your mind atop a boat, enjoying the sun to your leisure. Beside you is your handsome man staring at the sky holding your hand. Inhale, exhale...sigh! What a way to seize the day. A day belonging to just you and him. With no shrilling doorbells, no neighborhood squabbles, nothing to break your sanity.

It's a matter of choice to what you enjoy most. Peace and quiet alone in a boat, by the beach, or probably a family outing in a villa, a cottage...your call! The important thing is that you get your well-deserved break from the city. Now, not next year. Start the year right. Start it with a vacation!

BIZARRE LOVE TRIANGLE

2011-01-06T11:15:00.002+08:00

AT WORK + AT HOME = LIFE

2011-01-06T10:30:00.003+08:00

Nobody wants to live doing nothing, and having nothing. Everybody craves for a meaningful life. A life worth living. And to have that people focus on two things: WORK and a place to call HOME.

A house is not a home. The mere structure of a house needs to have love and happiness with people we most care about to be called home. Either the family that we opened our eyes to since birth or the family we built and wish to live with forever. Because they were the ones that makes our mornings bright and our nights cozy. They are the ones that keeps us thanking the heavens for every day we are given breath.

BUT THEN its not just love that gives us the capability to survive. The world since the first man and woman has changed totally. Man now needs to work to live. It may not always be easy thus we look for ways to make living somehow smooth. We look for careers that pays higher, we find ways to be frugal and wise. Today the most in-demand work so far that was pursed by the millions is nursing. You see them like ants in nursing scrubs. Pretty thing invented if you ask me! More comfortable than being in skirt while you rush for your patients doing things that needs you to squat over, step up machines or whatever else just so you can be in full service. Uniforms are mighty convenient and at the same time gives one less a problem among many others to which pertains to the budget of clothing. There are available scrubs for cheap if you are wise enough to know where to look.

We balance life at home and life at work. That's how it is for everyone...to have a life, one should have a happy home and a worthy work. And in between these two there's LOVE. Life cannot be survived without this that makes up a person.

LEAVE NOTHING TO REGRET

2011-01-06T01:28:00.003+08:00

"The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone."
~ Harriet Beecher Stowe

These words points to "Time is Gold"..."Wait not for tomorrow for tomorrow may never come"..."If only"...and all those other phrases that people utters as a reminder to another not to waste precious chances given us that we might regret not taking advantage of in the end. It is true that there are times that we tend to be confident of our youth and of our health that we delay doing or saying things that we can do today for so many reasons and excuses. The mere showing our love ones how much we love them, or doing those things we dream of doing for them or even as simple as giving ourselves what we deserve other than what we are presently having. We get too busy living our life that we lose track of time and end up being cheated by fate...therefore the chances passes us by. Either we missed the turn, took the detour or those around us did the change lanes leaving us behind.

And what was left of us...REGRETS for the words left unsaid and the deeds left undone. DO NOT WAIT FOR THAT INOPPORTUNE TIME. Take your chance NOW while you still have it. Forgive and ask forgiveness. Show love and say I love you. Make them happy while you can. Leave memories of you that will linger. Create memories of you and them for you to cherish when they are gone. TODAY and not TOMORROW. NOW and not LATER. Leave nothing to regret!!!

SPICE UP YOUR HOLIDAY NITES

2010-12-21T06:01:00.001+08:00

This is a Sponsored post written by me on behalf of Pier 1 Imports. All opinions are 100% mine.

Everybody seems to be on the go for weeks already in preparation for the holiday season...the women most especially. And maybe, just maybe, we are neglecting our men for quite a time already. And an idea came to mind upon seeing this Spiced Cranberry Candles, imagining the bedroom lit with them up until the bathtub. This could be the best gift you could give your better half, a sizzling hot nite together smelling of sweet berries.

Thanks to Pier 1 for such lovely ideas of gifts that I came across this candle as I was shopping for my friends and relatives gifts for our year-end Thanksgiving get together. Some cute stuffs like this Mini sock coin purses to give my mommy friends, those Assorted Flashing Light Bulb Pens for my nieces and nephews, and so much more that you can't find just anywhere. I especially have to buy those Pashmina wraps the elders would appreciate...I'd love to have them myself since it's such a great bargain. Almost everything is, actually. And if anyone of my friends are reading this, grab the Pearl Clutch for me which I really, really would appreciate (wink!) since it matches the new slippers I just bought a few days ago. Or preferring a Modern look for my home, Black and White usually fits in...like those gorgeous Capiz Checker Placemat. Pier 1 Imports really have a lot of possible holiday gifts! They deserve a "like" in their Facebook account as a way of spreading holiday cheers, I tell you! And they share this love by donating $1 to Toys for Tots for every fan they have. You can also further support Toys for Tots by dropping off an unwrapped toy and/or making a cash donation at the register which actually started November and ends December.

Wait no more. Start browsing through and get your candles to spice up your holiday nites at the same time see which to have for your gift giving.

MARITAL FIGHTS ARE DISEASE CAUSING

2010-12-20T09:23:00.004+08:00

Marital fights can take years from your life. It puts your health in danger.

According to psychologists, the immune system takes a beating every verbal clash especially those ending in sarcasm and put-downs. These instances puts us in stress. And stress hormones, cortisol and norepinephrine, helps to react in physical danger but it also reduce our body's supply of disease fighting immune cells therefore too often release of these stress hormones is not at all good for our health.

Be informed though that researchers confirms that stress hormone levels and blood pressure rise far more in women than in men...apparently since we are more emotional and that we dwell more on those arguments. The longer couples are married, the higher the chance that they were having those arguments for a long time, thus the higher risk for them in addition to them at a vulnerable age to having different kinds of diseases.

GIVE AND TAKE IN A RELATIONSHIP

2010-12-19T20:37:00.007+08:00

Men and women naturally were created differently. People have so much difference that it is common to have disagreements. After all we were raised by different families, we were used to doing different things and living in different ways. And so, in a couple's life together, there are more than a few adjustments made to live harmoniously. We call it "Give and Take". At times you give in and in another time it will be his time to give in.

I know of a couple who admitted that they are the exact opposite of one another. That they are amongst those who said to believe that "opposite attracts" in the early stages of their relationship. Yes they are at first having difficulty living with each other for the simple reason that when one likes this color, the other likes another. If one is the messy one, the other is the ever so neat better half. They had their share of tantrums and fights until they come to an agreement a couple of months after the wedding bliss have gone plateu...that they need to give in at times.

At one time, they argued on having the griller placed not outside the house but on the porch where the husband can grill while he drinks his brandy during days of needing to relax. Not that there is no way to vent out the smoke since it is open top with sliding glass door, but the wife insists that it is so out of place there. That she prefers it out in the garden because it looks better there. In the end, they agreed to let it stay in the porch as long as it will be covered when not in use. Husband bought her a real nice Grill Cover that matches her green couch cushions. She conceded this time, next time it's his turn!

WEDDING MONTH

2010-12-15T10:52:00.003+08:00

December is one of the busiest month for couturiers, caterers, event coordinators and wedding planners. And this is especially true here in the country.

It simply is the month most couples choose to finally take the vow, to prove of their love for one another...to finally get married. I, for one, have this unfulfilled dream of saying "I do" in December. Maybe because this is the season when most relatives and friends are visible from their long time absence under their workloads. Maybe because the holidays is partly to blame for the pouring out of sentimentality of everyone. Or it could also be the unusually colder climate that makes people love cuddling more.

...and this is one reason why I love this month the most, being the romantic fool that I am (wink!) I find December as the Love Month other than the other months most believe it to be.

LOVING DAVID BENOIT

2010-12-03T22:47:00.000+08:00

COLLECT AND SELECT

2010-11-30T11:36:00.008+08:00

This is a Sponsored Post written by me on behalf of Smingle.com. All opinions are 100% mine.

"Collect and Select is the wisest thing to do" is what I often hear my dad say to my brother. And in my mind I know that it also is for me. At this day and age, we have to be giving ourselves further chances of finding that perfect mate. That special someone who can make us happy at the same time who we can make happy. And not just anyone who happens to come along...but he who fits your qualification.

We know that it's not easy to outright find that person. Therefore we go dating. We try and meet up people...then again, with that we are limited to those among our circles of friends and their acquaintances. And more often than not we succumb to facing someone we almost have no knowledge about which results to embarrassing meet up's. Either you're both trapped to a long boring night out or cut-off date that leaves you both frustrated.

Why not try the very effective and practical virtual dating? As the European Journal of Social Psychology says, "People who go on virtual dates first tend to like each other more when they meet and are two times more likely to go on a second date." It's like you have gotten past the uncomfortable stage of getting to know the basics of one another. Then you get to be more confident that both of you have enough knowledge on one another to get you interested for the first and second dates...which you can continue to build on the succeeding dates. And interaction with someone in the most comfortable environment for you helps a lot in doing away with queasiness. THS Investigates very words about it, "Singles can interact in a simulated dating environment online from the comfort of their own home." I personally go with such an initial interaction, at a distance. Well, not only will you be more comfortable at the comfort of your home but the common human reaction to meeting an unknown individual of nervousness and uncertainty can be forgone.

Now that it's the start of the "colder" season, a time to snuggle, a time to have someone to snuggle with...I again remember the first time I've heard of this virtual dating. I did not believe it until I have tried it...and tried it I did, with http://www.smingle.com. It is that time of the year when people mostly seeks companionship as well therefore I truly found a lot who feels the same yearning as I did. And I got to meet not just those within my usual selection of dark hair and dark eyes...but beautiful blonds and redheads with green and blue eyes of the west!!! I truly enjoyed it there at Smingle, and I know you would to. You even get 3 months free by simply uploading a photo.

...so what's the wait?! It is but a click away to finding your perfect "virtual mate" that is possibly your "reality mate"!

MISSING YOU, SIB!

2010-11-26T10:36:00.002+08:00

Been missing my best bud for so long...and now that she's finally back and just a few hours away, its frustrating not to be able to see her pronto!!!

I MISS YOU SO MUCH SIB!
AND I LOVE YOU!
HOPE TO SEE YOU REAL SOON...

MANLY THINGS

2010-11-15T10:42:00.006+08:00

Soon it will be gift giving once again...and you don't know what to give HIM. I know how you feel, it's the same for me each and every year, and not just once a year considering all the occasions we are obliged to give and the non-occasional days when you just want to give him something (wink!)

If you are like me who read pocketbooks, I'm sure you also have come across novels that circles around the earlier centuries. And maybe somehow can appreciate those times when men have this so called "study" or this own room where he settles down to, to do his work. More like a library to which does not commonly interests women before. I like the idea of having such for my hubby, if and when I have one already hahaha. I guess these days it is better called "office" or office space in the home.

And this gave me an idea of having an old-fashioned library in our home that have stuffs to make it old fashioned but homely. Maybe you can start having one as well so you can fill it up little by little through gift givings in the coming year. GREAT IDEA, right? And the first that comes to my mind that is old fashioned will be the clock. Thinking of Grandfather clocks, well, if the place is big enough maybe something like it. But I have seen this site with hermle clocks and those wonderful ideas I have never thought before. Like this table here that I find uniquely magnificent as well as this tabletop glass encased hermle clock. What do you think? Does your husband have his own study or space like such?

Well...I hope this help you somehow with the gift ideas you're suppose to be thinking of as early as now for the coming year-end celebrations.

MEN ARE BIG BOYS

2010-11-12T20:10:00.003+08:00

"Men's second childhood begins when a woman gets a hold of him."
~ James M. Barrie

Can we blame it on human nature? Women are basically created to pamper. It pleases us to take care of people, especially our love ones. We have this maternal instinct to take care of our kids. That no matter how much we need a Handbook for Dummies when we first hold our first borne, we still know how when worst comes to worst. And this instinct we extend not only to kids, but to our man. We tend to go soft on them. We try to make everything right for them. We do things that will make them happy. AND THEY ARE AWARE OF THIS! Since men and women were created to fit each others needs, this is probably when men gives in to what the women needs to do...to their advantage! On the other hand, we love them more when they let us do it. It's like fulfillment of our duty being a woman. Even on the negative end...when they whine and we reprimand (hahaha!)

Therefore, I truly agree with James Barrie, don't you?

IN LOVING YOU MORE...

2010-11-11T08:30:00.002+08:00

I remember seeing you on your knees with love in your eyes...
you were holding that sparkling ring that I have never removed since.
A few months after, after a blurry of preparation...
we walk down the aisle and you made me yours to keep.
TO FOREVER we vowed...
till death do us part.

Yes, DEATH is a reality we hate to face when it comes to the ones we love. But looking around us, we know that it comes in a snap. We believe in our heart that we can never be prepared to let go if that reality will be tomorrow. And the same goes for our better half. He almost do not want to think about it as well. But we are thinking about it NOW...and in your minds eye you put yourself in his shoes. You cannot leave him just as he is now. You cannot leave him worrying because you are not insured. WHY DO SO WHEN YOU CAN INSURE YOURSELF and in your heart you would know that you are saying "...in loving you more".

Buy Life Insurance the easiest way. With no hassles to filling up form after form, nor a need to give up a lot of your time. Now you can do it online wherever country you are, because one of the ever first companies in the US is making it possible for you to have online insurance. Don't let him worry when your time comes....

BREAK-UP

2010-11-10T09:25:00.004+08:00

"WHY?" A question that is continuously ringing in her ears and is at the back of her mind 24 hours a day as she tries to understand the reason for the break-up. She may be trying to top one question over another digging the root of the problem. But no matter how much she denies it, she knows that IT IS OVER.

Are you in this state of heart wrenching pain? Had a recent break up? Or maybe on the verge of breaking up? Let Joey Albert join you in your pain...listen to her lovely song and let her help you admit the fact that IT'S OVER NOW.

A HOUSE TO CALL HOME

2010-11-09T15:58:00.004+08:00

Nothing more important for soon to be wed couples than to prepare for their life together. And in our present day, it is but natural for women to be assured that their husbands to be can provide for the family that they will be building.

Personally, a house to call our home is amongst the very firsts to take into consideration. It is never a contentment for me to just rent in apartments. I have to have my own place, as I am sure any wife would want. Two main parts of the house comes first, the bedroom and the kitchen. In my mind I see either modern or rustic bedroom furniture. My kitchen would need to be sparkly clean, mostly in steel or wood.

But a house is just a house without the warmth and the love. And every family loves building memories. How nice it would be to have them in your own place and not in those places you will be renting?!

CAN YOU HAVE TWO MEN IN YOUR LIFE?

2010-11-03T11:34:00.004+08:00

Have you ever been in such a dilemma when you just can’t decide who you love better? That you can have either one of them so in your mind, you just let them be there both for you…but in reality you have to choose!?! Well, some would say “lucky you” to find not just one but two who interests you that much and that the feeling is mutual. But the truth is ~ it is difficult!

Don’t get me wrong, I am not having such a dilemma…well, I do, but only with my problem between choosing for “McDreamy or McSteamy?” Ring a bell? If you are a fanatic of Grey’s Anatomy (or as addicted as I am…yeah, TOTALLY!) you would know that McDreamy is Dr. Derek Shepherd, and McSteamy is Dr. Mark Sloan. These are the two sizzling hot male characters that’s mainly the reason to my unending need to continuously watch the chapter after chapter of the 6 seasons of cd that I have until I reach the very last episode, next to the fantastic write up that truly pokes my emotion with the real life crisis that happens to the patients and the people in a hospital setting. These two characters make my mind go crazy with wanting to be in Meredith Grey’s life, more so within the hospital and within reach of Shepherd and Sloan. ( I wonder…it used to e me wanting to be a Jedi or a super hero, now this?! Haha!) Funny but just now I am having difficulty deciding what story to write in my head to make me fit in the life of my McDreamy or McSteamy that would match up with either one of them. And to whom should I be attracted to really? They actually are two very different men, but both worth fantasizing over, tsk! I love them both but who will be best to be my happy ever after? Darn!

And this is when I stop and sigh, “I am glad in real life I don’t have to choose between two such adorable men!” Do you or have you? It will be magnificent to hear such a real life story of such.

FUN TIME, BOND TIME

2010-10-20T11:38:00.003+08:00

Relationships cannot last without friendship. And within friends there always is a common ground. Mine would be paintball guns!

There's nothing more fun than gooing around with friends. And it has always been a dream to have an adventure. I have not found earlier a circle of friends that would want to crawl down the ground, hide in barrels, run around carrying rifles and pretend to be in The Farm as CIA agents being trained...but now I did (my special someone included...wink!)! And its amazing that we have this craving to try paint balls. Its fun to play them as a group fronting our laptops, but I bet it will be a blast to do such in real life! Soon!!! Actually there will be an upcoming "long weekend" which I am looking forward to. And how nice it would be to finally make this craving happen!!!

What do we need? First off, we've got to find the best place to do this...and the paintball gears that we will be needing of course! It would be awesome to do this in a forest-like place, so I guess we'll head out in the country side.

How about you? Have you tried doing this? With your friends?

WHAT CAN YOU SAY ABOUT PRE-NUPTIAL AGREEMENT

2010-10-12T14:15:00.008+08:00

This is something quite popular these days to marrying couples, and...

I wonder what
FILIPINO'S and NON-FILIPINO'S
say about this?!
(WHAT CAN YOU SAY ABOUT THIS?)

Are you among the practical people who believes that you have the right to decide how much of what you have worked for and saved for you will willingly give to your other half? Maybe you are just being careful believing that one can never tell the real score until you are years married and that it will not be a mere one or two years before you wholeheartedly trust this someone of all your possessions? That you are just aware of the fact that not only those women you read about who lost their everything to someone in a snap but you yourself can also be a victim of such injustice? Are you for this pre-nuptial agreement that is now being accepted by the society and deemed to be just a wise move?

Or are you against it believing that a pre-nuptial agreement is something used only by or cold , untrusting, and presumptuous individuals? That if you truly love your better halves you care less for the material things and that "what is mine is yours and what is yours is mine" counts for you? And that you know in your heart that your relationship have nothing in between yes or no before the vows, meaning the moment yo sworn to each other there will definitely be NO BACKING OUT?

WOULD YOU OR WOULD YOU NOT
HAVE PRE-NUPTIAL AGREEMENT?
(or maybe HAVE YOU or HAVE YOU NOT?)

TOO YOUNG TO BE IN LOVE

2010-10-06T10:06:00.004+08:00

Is it just me or everyone get to hear in their lifetime "You're still too young" whenever love is the topic?

You and I will always be just a kid in our parent's eyes. That no matter how old you become, they are always older than you are...which for them means they know better. And at times, we let them believe that they are though they are not.

Loving is something that comes and goes in every stage of our lives. BUT there will come a time that you finally know that "THIS IS IT!" And it is not always the same age as when another found hers. One may have it a little later than you did, or even far far later than you did. This do not necessary mean that YOU ARE TOO YOUNG (nor are you too old in this regard) because loving is unique for each one of us. Love is too complex yet also too simple...depending on YOU AND HIM, and how you define it and how you go about it. We have every right to declare to the world that you are IN LOVE regardless of whether they believe it to be true or not because it is YOU who feels it beating, and it is you who feels it glowing.

TIME WILL REVEAL

2010-09-28T10:12:00.001+08:00

Are you the type that jumps from one relationship to another, being strong enough to move on and not dwell on the past believing that if it's not meant to be then find which one is?!

Or are you amongst those who makes sure, either being doubly careful not wanting to get hurt or probably have gone through it so many times already that you are careful of breaking your heart once again? Or it's just possible that you are just very much aware of the possibilities and would want to do everything right the first time?!

I have been both, actually. In my younger days, when I knew that I'm too young for truly serious relationships to the point of ending up in a wedding ceremony right away, I can psyche myself into moving on though not outright "new" man. I move on by going back on track with or without being involved once again. At the latter part, I am now more experienced with life and knows that TIME matters. That in time, it will all be revealed to you what the best to do and of what you both really feel.

VERBALLY ABUSED

2010-09-21T13:00:00.003+08:00

It is frightening to be "physically abused" but it is as hurtful to be "verbally abused".

There are couples that go on separate ways to avoid being in such a situation that both will regret, and one of which is the exchange of painful words. But there also are some that stays but suffers the effects of being abused. Either they believe to love the other so much that they can bear any assault, they have no choice because of a child that blossomed during the relationship, that they are tied in the bonds of marriage already or worse of all is when they are not aware that they are being abused already.

Words can affect us. Positively or negatively, whatever was said directly to us affects us. And emotionally, we carry it with us even after it was said and forgotten. Unfortunately those words molds us to what we become as we continue to hear it, and live with it. If time and again we are reminded of our weaknesses, insecurities build up. In the end we became enslaved by it and in ourselves believe that we really are what was said of us. The other way around, strengths became the foundation to our reaching our goals.

WE ALL HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE RESPECTED! Do not let anyone pull you down to what he thinks you are when you know that you are more than what he sees in you. If by chance that you do have a weakness, he should be there to help you overcome it, he should be loving you with or without it. And not rub it in and laughs at your face with it. Because he does not deserve all the goodness you have if your weaknesses he cannot accept. NOBODY HAVE THE RIGHT TO HURT YOU WITH ANYTHING: physical blows or splitting words.

LOVE LETTERS AND CARDS

2010-09-20T10:11:00.003+08:00

I am a sentimental fool...I admit to that! I kept all the letters given me since childhood, varying from birthday cards friendly cards, get-well-soon cards, ALL KINDS of cards, noted and letters...not forgetting LOVE LETTERS.

I love writing therefore, as expected, they write back. But it touches the heart to receive one when you're not expecting it. Yes, it's usual to get one when there is an occasion or celebrations...so why not give one on an ordinary day just saying you miss them? or just sharing love to your better halves? family or friend? You don't also need an excuse to send letters and cards. It is one way of keeping in touch, it is one way of letting someone know they are thought of. And not just sending them a very simple text message, but something better. something more tangible like photo christmas cards or photo whatever-occasion cards. and something more personalized is always better than just those that you can buy anywhere.

This is such a great idea that I am now signing off to print some and send them asap ;)

BAKIT NGAYON KA LANG Filipino Love Song

2010-09-20T10:05:00.002+08:00

MOVING...

2010-09-16T11:19:00.002+08:00

It is not unusual to see a family moving-in in your neighborhood. Life is unpredictable, yes, because there are times when you yourself are surprised with the sudden turn of events. One moment you're happily celebrating life of being single and next thing you know you met the man of your dream and you're getting married. Another time you are loving your place, the place you grew up to with your loving parents and the next instant you are about to move out whether you like it or not. Sometimes it's your choice like when you opt to migrate, but there are also times that you have to find a more accessible place to your work place or to your own family's sake.

What I believe to be getting more and more popular are those condominiums that are in the heart of the city and in most preferred place to be. Wise. But wiser still, you don't get a very big one, just enough for you and your hubby, or maybe your family if you started already. And what you only worry for is the space for your stacks and boxes of things you cannot let go of. Gladly, there are places for such already...it's Self Storage Ipswich. Whatever you're concern is about this, they have them answered and dealt with. Check and see the convenience these has to offer and i'm sure you'll end up saying what I do..."That's a great idea!"

LOVE THE STORY OF #1 ~ ALMOST HEAVEN by Judith McNaught

2010-09-16T10:58:00.006+08:00

BACK COVER SAYS...

ELIZABETH CAMERON
The Countess of Havenhurst possessed a rare gentleness and fierce courage to match her exquisite beauty. But her reputation is shattered when she is discovered in the arms of Ian Thornton, a notorious gambler and social outcast.

IAN THORNTON
A dangerously handsome man of secret wealth and mysterious lineage, his voyage to Elizabeth's heart is fraught with intrigue, scandal, and a venomous revenge.

Destined for each other, yet wary of each other's motives, Elizabeth and Ian engage in a dance of suspicion and passion that tests thevery soul of their star-crossed love. As a twisting path of secrets takes them from London's drawing rooms to the mysterious Scottish Highlands, Elizabeth must learn the truth: is Ian merely a ruthless fortune hunter at heart?

JENIE SAYS...

One of the best stories I have ever read. I love reading it over and over! Imagine being transported back in time where women goes to balls and dances in court in their flowing wonderful dresses. You will be caught up in the the book feeling that you were there yourself. Experience the simplicity of life and love in their times...but be surprised on how passionate they are too.

The very beautiful Elizabeth being a martyr of needing to save her family by getting married found herself in the arms of not her fiance but the most handsome Ian and falling hopelessly in love.

BONDING TIME

2010-09-15T13:24:00.003+08:00

Giving time to be with one another is a key to a sturdier relationship. May you be two single couple trying to make it work or a married couple with kids and fighting your way in keeping the fire burning...YOU HAVE TO HAVE TIME ALONE WITH ONE ANOTHER.

And it has always been in my romantic mind's eye to be in the woods and cuddle in front of the fire, dive in the water naked together, be inside a cozy tent for hours without worrying you have to wake up in a few minutes or be late for work. How nice ti would be to spend a few days in a secluded area with just the two of you, bonding. Learning more of each other you have not had the time to in your fast pace of life in the city, discovering ways to make each other be better as an individual and as a couple, or simply enjoying each others company.

End the wait, get into the comfy and safe to travel on rvs and get your most deserve vacation for two!!!

DO YOU BELIEVE IN HEALTHY FIGHTS?

2010-09-14T07:04:00.003+08:00

Within my dating years, I have heard, not just a dozen times, that it is normal to have disagreements in a relationship. In fact whenever my relationship with a boyfriend ends, it never passes without an advice from friends to have healthy fights. That maybe we separated because we're too placid. That it is healthy in a relationship to have "healthy fights".

Up until now I don't believe that! Do you?

Maybe it's my belief that people get along with their similarities. Maybe I still think that talking things through right away is the solution and there is no need for fights, raised voices or flying objects included. That there could be spice in a relationship other than tension, clash, friction, argument, squabble....

Or am I right? Maybe it is proper to have those healthy fights? Maybe that is still the reason why I am single??? What do you think?

LOOK FOR HIM

2010-09-11T08:42:00.003+08:00

People think in varying ways. Some believe in soul mate, some believe in meant to be, and some believe in looking for the right one or paving ways to meet that special someone.

If you are amongst those who think that we are given choices, free will, the responsibility of living your life and finding for yourself how your life will turn out...we are on the same line of thoughts. I know that the heavens have plans for each one of us, but then the end still depends on how we live it, on our part on it and on our every decision.

Therefore, in finding the perfect mate, I know that He alone can give me who is the best for me but I have to work for it as well. I have to pave way to meet him. How can I if I will just be cooped home? Or live in a shell? But I don't have an idea when, where, or how. Thus, I know I have to give reasons for my special someone to find me. And it could be at work, it could be at church, it could be at a party...or it can even be at toronto canadian dating site. He could be anywhere!!! Agree with me?

The thing is...GIVE HIM A CHANCE TO FIND YOU! As surprising as it can be, he may be on those dating sites made availble for romantic fools like us (wink!)

GAIN LOVE THROUGH THE STOMACH

2010-09-10T08:22:00.002+08:00

Do you believe that MEN WILL LOVE YOU MORE IF YOU LOVE HIM THROUGH HIS STOMACH? By fulfilling his hunger and cravings for food?

The truth is, I've been hearing a lot about this, but up until now I have no answer to that question. Thinking about it, I LOVE TO EAT. And maybe, just maybe, giving your man what he loves (which may be eating most of the time) will guarantee return of that love. From my previous relationships I gathered that men are simply more interested in eating than women are, them also not being overly conscious of bulging stomachs. So I concluded that pleasing them with tasty and sumptuous meals will make them happier, more thankful and more loving to you.

MY BABY...

2010-09-10T07:14:00.003+08:00

I have always wished to have my own car to drive since teenage life. Its been an envy to see one oozing away in their own baby's, may it be a salivating brand new car or sparkling though Used Jaguar Tempe.

In my mind I see myself behind the wheels driving along the highway, and as the light turns red, a hunk pulls over beside me and eyes me and my baby. BIG LAUGH! But a dream that can come true!!!

We honestly can say that it will easier to make happen with second hand cars. Its not practical nowadays anymore to go grabbing brand new ones when you can have the same at a lower cost. Millionaires go tired of them in a few months, replace them, and leave them in sale for us to partake with. SUMPTUOUS! haha. So let's go window shopping and you never know, you might actually have one for yourself at a price just a wee bit higher of your old car when sold.

KISSING...

2010-09-09T11:25:00.000+08:00

DREAM HOUSE

2010-09-09T11:09:00.003+08:00

Every couple have their own dreams to fulfill, and amongst them were their dream houses. The sanctuary of their love, a house to fill with love and kids.

I've always thought of having one with a wonderful landscape, a garden to lay around together in, a pool to dip into during the night and make fabulous love. This brings to mind Austin Custom Pool Builder. Who else can make the best but them.

Blame me not for looking far out ahead, but honestly, I've been building my house in my mind since I had my first boyfriend in High School. But believe me or not, I have never pictured anybody with me yet. It's always a faceless man for fear that when I think of it, it will not come true...or maybe for fear of being disappointed that it's not that present love of my life. Lucky me, I never felt disappointed, because up until now I am building those dreams in my mind.

And now I whisper to myself, I don't need to wait for that man to build my dream house. Why not put it up, and wait for that someone to complete the picture?! Right-O?

AGE DOES MATTER

2010-09-09T09:59:00.002+08:00

Personally, I believe that AGE DOES MATTER when it comes to relationships. Because accept it or not, there is a need for connection and the level of maturity and understanding is affected by age, in addition to it alone will be exposure or experience.

Women naturally matures earlier than men. And so if a woman per chance will be older than the man in a relationship, there is a greater chance that the man will be left behind when it pertains to decision making and preferences. And remember that it is vital in a relationship that you have communication. You need to enjoy talking with each other, not not merely trying to be like the other to try and meet half way. Because if you are thinking way ahead, the future, there will come a time that both of you can do nothing but talk.

Physically, women matures easily as well. And insecurities can develop which will also affect the relationship. Attached to it is jealousy...then will come the misunderstandings, waivering respect, and so on and so forth.

Men can be older than the women and still they meet. And that's partly because the maturity of the woman coped with the maturity of the man, them being late bloomers.

THIS IS ACTUALLY JUST MY POINT OF VIEW...what can you say about it?

LEGAL MATTERS OF THE HEART

2010-09-09T09:37:00.003+08:00

We fall in love, then we break our hearts....

It is not unusual to hear such stories. That's how life is. But what is not so common is the next stage to that, and that is:

We fall in love, get married, break our hearts, and get separated...

Sad to say, this thing is getting more and more common. The word DIVORCE, SEPARATION or ANNULMENT seems to be getting frequently heard among our peers. That no matter how we find it wrong, no matter how we want to help and advice the ones involved, we just have to accept sometimes that not every relationship is worth keeping. That there's so much to consider but then time comes when the ones involve have to let matters be settled legally. And there's nothing like the Austin Divorce Attorney who can help you the most. We have to admit that there's much to take care of, and both ends do not always get into agreement. That is if there's not a single way...a tinnie winnie bit of chance left....do the right thing and let your attorney make it right for both of you.

"MEN LIE, THEY JUST DO" by Madonna

2010-09-09T09:33:00.003+08:00

"MEN LIE, THEY JUST DO" by pop idol Madonna is a popular phrase for me. Maybe based from experience, I can say that "Yeah, she's right!"

But I guess the "In every rule there is an exemption" can also count here. I cannot generally say that they lie since I do not all of them...not ALL men but MOST men do, perhaps.

Why you say? I actually do not know because I AM A WOMAN! Maybe you can enlighten us, if you are a man?

SCENT TO PRICK THE SENSES

2010-09-08T13:42:00.004+08:00

Human easily reacts to Scent...and when we speak of attraction to the opposite sex, the SCENT matters a great deal. Sometimes next to physical attributes, sometimes greater.

We all want to have someone smelling nice and good to be with. But its not as simple as anyone wearing anything. There is the so-called scent to match your personality and the scent to match your body chemistry. You simply have to know what gives you the boost that you need and not the other way around.

And of course, there is a plus point to scents that are within the elite social circle...because admit it or not, we give a little more preference to those wearing branded ones than unknown scent. May it be truly branded or smells like the branded ones doesn't matter sometimes. Especially if you can't tell one from the other. And thanks to sites like Scent.net for allowing us choices for opportunities to prick the senses.

HE...SHE

2010-09-08T13:39:00.003+08:00

One of the greatest differences between the sexes is their perception of sex.

Most common is MEN being able to have sex just with visual stimulation and WOMEN needs more than just the senses, but more of the intangible things like love, comfort and care.

LOSING A LOVE ONE

2010-09-08T06:34:00.003+08:00

The heartache of losing a love one is tremendous. And the burden one carries with it is so great that one tend to care less for anything else but the need to grieve with the loss.

But we have to be aware that there is so much to take care of. So much to do. And do not forget the financial matters that you will have to face during or after all that. Either the management of debts or assets and claims...you need someone to trust to take care of all that for you. And gladly, you just have to Trust Attorney Austin.

Probate lawyers are there to handle vast concerns and responsibilities up to a point of looking non-manageable to you. Legal matters concerning wills and testaments, paying debts, distribution of assets to heirs or any in relation to it, is being seen to with the probate courts supervision. At any time there are claims from creditors, challenging of wills or disputes that will give you more stress than the grief that put you down...the assistance of probate lawyers are heaven sent.

Yes, it is heart wrenching to lose a love one, but it will be more painful to lose what he left for you as well if you're not careful.

CRUISING by Huey Lewis/Gwyneth Paltrow

2010-09-08T06:33:00.000+08:00

TV ADDICT COUPLE

2010-09-08T06:09:00.002+08:00

It is wonderful to see couples that have aligned interest. This states their compatibility. And in one glance you know that they spend time together on common ground and that it is most likely that they enjoy being with each other.

I have seen TV addict couples and it is not such a big deal for them to just stay home on weekends. They even call it "quality-time-home-weekends". And hour after hour, they are hooked watching TV!!!

But now it's good news for them that there is Free TV Online because they can do this even if not secluded "weekly" in the sanctuary of their home. They can enjoy it even if outdoors. They can watch TV in their carry on laptops while loving the garden breeze, the mist of the beach, or anywhere else to do so somewhere different. After all...it often creates more thrill and spark to be somewhere else and still being together.

Experiencing something new together is always an added spice to your relationship, right?

CORSAGE

2010-09-08T06:08:00.002+08:00

LOVE AND DESTRUCTION

2010-09-08T06:05:00.002+08:00

"I love you!" does not just end up with "I love you, too!"

There are innumerable outcomes to hearing those words when you count the days, the months and the years that it has been said...depending on what comes with it. Does it come with a harmonious life together? Or does it come with a stressful day? A peaceful environment? Or a difficult boss?

Therefore it is but right that in a relationship you get involve with your partner. You don't just go loving each other inside the bedroom. You have to give love through sharing, consoling, giving advice or sometimes simply listening and being there for him.

A company owner once had a big problem his company with regards to fraud that he got involved with it so much that he carried the problem at home without voicing it out. That affected his relationship and added to his confused mind...in the end losing them both.

Talk about it! If only he had...his wife's previous employer has had similar experience and his very wife had help solve it by advising on data destruction. One form of fraud, which is data recovery/data theft, has been seen to by the data destruction security service. Data disposal in its proper way like hard drive shredding is one of the ways they do to protect sensitive information.

"IF ONLY...", let this phrase not be in your vocabulary when it comes to your relationship because this can only mean REGRET!.

ADMIRATION

2010-09-04T17:25:00.000+08:00

"Admiration is a curiosity."
~ by Greg Evans

BOY TOY

2010-09-03T12:27:00.002+08:00

I have always thought of this, BOY TOY. How come it is thought of as such then points to cars, bikes, things as such. We definitely can make it a GIRL TOY as well.

But what the heck! We are women and women are there to please men more than the other way around. (well, that is after the courtship!)

And so in my mind, I think of what to please my man than of what he do not do or give to please me. Agree with me in saying that it is human nature to be that way. That when we are in love, we tend to give our all more selflessly.

How did this came to mind? Well, I heard of this Los Angeles Auto Insurance and reminded me of cars and him. Men definitely will be ecstatic to be given such a toy, and will appreciate it even more to be informed that there is an insurance for that toy.

THINK OF YOUR WEDDING RING

2010-09-03T12:25:00.005+08:00

THE BAND TO SIGNIFY YOUR FOREVER

ADDICT MATE

2010-09-03T12:16:00.005+08:00

We have to accept the fact that internet is addictive. And having a better half addicted to it is much much more preferable than having someone addicted to something else.

Truth to say, we can even be glad that they are at least they stay home as compared to those others whom you have to search for else you won't be seeing awake since they come home in the wee hours of the morning and wakes up after you're gone to work.

One thing you have to do is to make sure that they have satelite high speed internet to keep them rooted at home. Furthermore, it is beneficial to you as well loving technology and its gift of ease with those internet availabilities at the comfort of your home.

You just have to be a little persuasive and artful in making them leave their seats in front of the PC if you think you need their time away from the internet!