GONE

Hearbreak...
Tears
Sentimental...
More tears...
Resentment...
And more tears
Anger...
Drying tears
Letting go...
Dried tears
Acceptance...
Sigh


Peace!

AFTER A SPLIT UP

You almost can't believe this happening. After years of being together, your other half is not yours to keep any more. Your everyday routine of waking up to a sweet text message of "take care on the way to work", the phone calls at work, the lunch time dates, the awaited time of finally seeing him after work...all just suddenly changed and you miss all of it. You miss him.

BUT no matter how you feel your world up side down, you have to let go. He is not meant for you. That no matter how you want him back, you know that when you go back to him it will just be as before. The fight will recur, the broken hearts, the broken spirit. It is best for the both of you to separate and be whole again while you still both can pick up the shattered pieces of you the relationship did shatter.

But there's so much reminder of him at home. The years of exchanging of gifts expressing love and care is everywhere. But you have to admit that you don't want to give it away. You truly want those things. The beanbag by your bed you cuddle in while you watch a movie, a cabinet full of hug-able toys, the clothes...everything. It's just that you need more time to adjust first. Where can you keep it out of site for a time being? There is a place like Storage Reading Cow Lane where you can put them in without fear of losing them. They have varying sizes depending on need. It can be long or short term. You have a key access anytime. They even offer free van hire to pick up and deliver your stuffs.

What a nice idea to keep those things for the time being...until you're ready to face it all again without breaking down.

BROKEN HEART or BROKEN SPIRIT?

Varying kinds and forms of emotions runs out of you. From tear strained face you feel crushed and you feel vulnerable; pale and drained you want out; reality sinks in and you are mad; sad and lonely being alone again but you protect yourself inside a shell; you’re back on your feet, strong and hard….

Tears are long gone, but where are you now?

Life gives you a choice of making your world revolve around the one you love or your love one to revolve around it. Your choice dictates how altered your life will be the moment that love pulls out. Either you end up with a broken spirit as your world stops because the one to circle around is lost, or you just break your heart, lose balance as it pulls out then mend and gain balance back in no time.

LET NO ONE BREAK THAT SPIRIT! Be who you are and what you are. And if you have been there and at the moment lost and uncertain, move on but learn from the past. A BROKEN HEART CAN BE MENDED IN TIME. And keep hoping that there in that bleak future is what is meant for you. Let it not pass you by just because of your fears. Experience makes us the wiser if you only bear those lessons in mind.

MEND YOUR BROKEN HEART

Believe it or not…TIME alone can mend it!

One may hid behind laughter’s or activities, but inside, still bleeding and burning as an aftermath of the break-up. It may take days, weeks, months…even years DEPENDING on your acceptance of reality before you can look back and not feel a thing. That’s how it is in this world, that’s how our creator made life. With happiness comes sadness. Both tears of joy and tears of sorrow exist.

Talking about it gives others the venting they need, but in others it rekindles the flame. Understand that in every thing we do there is a corresponding cause and effect; there’s a beginning and an end.

Again, acceptance is the key. And it’s not just in a snap will you acknowledge the facts…it takes TIME.