Wednesday, April 28, 2010

It is all but natural to see girls shed a tear or even to the point of wailing and howling BUT NOT BOYS?

If you ask me, I don't see anything wrong when they do. Maybe it's the way they do it and the reason for it. Naturally, we are more sensitive and emotional to really revert to tears but MEN are also human. Only, we see them to be tougher and tears just don't fit for simple TV scenes, a little misunderstanding or a front an out burst. Culture had them checking out their reactions and on handling their emotions.

Thus the very seldom occurrence of seeing them cry is overwhelming and touching. Or you don't agree that MEN ARE ALLOWED TO CRY?

As a man, what can be your contribution for us to understand you more?


Thursday, April 22, 2010


Don't let someone become your everything,
because when they're gone you have nothing!
by Kenya Mitchell

I agree! Speaking from experience, my world became empty when we had to part ways. Letting him revolve around your world will be so much better than the other way around. Or better yet, live it with him not for him...

It is often in a relationship that we love our better half so much that we tend to change for them, be where he wants us to be, do what he wants to do, even eat what he wants to eat sometimes. Remember that we are TWO different individuals. We may grow together, we may live together...but we need to have a line in between when it comes to the person that we are.

You can make it happen if you both love each other the same way. If you want a relationship to last, there should be no controlling...instead continue on with the freedom of enjoying life TOGETHER and INDIVIDUALLY also.

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