Sunday, August 29, 2010


As in every household, husbands tend to lose his things and asks his better half about it. You hear him asking where his shirt is, where his watch went, why his swiss knife isn't where he left it, even where his HDMI cables has been transferred to.

Sometimes it is endearing to think that he needs you even in such a tiny thing...but then at times it's irritatingly redundant to hear him ask you about his things when he should be keeping them to where it should be in the first place.

Men are generally such a clutter freak but then there are always exemption. I will be truly happy to have someone as organize as I am so as not to create any irritating feeling of needing to always clean up after my man. Glad I have yet to find the courage to choose and finally settle down.




Saturday, August 28, 2010


We don't need to give love only on holidays, as some says through songs. It will be a lot nicer to say "give love on all the days..." And we can truly do that in so many ways. Not just to the people close to us but to the people we go to work with, to the people we enjoy the weekends with, to the people around us.

In small ways we can do that. How you say? Look around you and think of any problem that common people have and at least contribute a little in avoiding it. One classic example I instantly thought of is pollution. Everyday we travel; to any place we go there are means of transportation and in my mind I see fumes. If only every vehicle owner be considerate of themselves and others. do the best way to give your car what it needs for proper function. All the parts and pieces that needs changing must be changed like the car engine, truck exhaust, electrical systems,... whatever else it needs. From components and accessories, its magnificent to drive something beautiful, sleek, fast, suave... but its magnanimous to drive your car knowing it's not hurting anyone.



"If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it doesn't, then it was never meant to be." ~ anonymous

I have heard this quote often enough since puberty. It sounds romantic at some point, sounded uplifting sometimes, and heartbreaking other times... depending on the time it was heard. But when I try and think it through it seems that whoever wrote this did so in a way that it will matter whichever time you are in.

Of course we have no choice but to LET GO if time comes and the relationship entails letting go. This quote will probably help give you hope if hope is needed for you to move on, or put you down more when hoping will bound you to wait instead of moving on but you still definitely will let go IN TIME!

"IF IT COMES BACK TO YOU", it may be forever but it may also be not forever. Because in the end, what made it yours to keep is how both ends meet; how the couple made it work; and how God made magic for everything to make it work. "IF IT DOESN'T IT NEVER WAS" is just an added pat in the back for you to finally accept the fact that you have to let go.

Well...this is just how I see it dissected as that. Is it agreeable? Or not?


Sunday, August 22, 2010


In the Philippines there is the so-called "pogi points" that men aims to have to have edge over another in the eyes of the woman they are vying to get "yes" from. They were the material things that they possess to increase their chances since practically speaking, it's not anymore just mere physical attributes or personality that pleases most women of the century. Two can have all those attributes but only one of those two have more "pogi points" over the other. Mr. A probably have a nice car, and Mr. B don't. He can also have his own pad, club membership, and many other financial measuring up's than the other. And we just have to admit that, Mr. A definitely will have a greater chance if compared to another with the same attributes but none of those "pogi points".

Then, MALE ALERT: try having those!!!

One great way is the option trading strategies that most professionals try to get their hands at. Don't just be content with your monthly income when you can have more. Though as in anything else in this world, there are up's and down's in it...but isn't it worth a try to be the man you can be for the eyes of your beloved?

RAPTURE OF LOVE by Anita Baker

Wednesday, August 18, 2010


When we met, I always knew
I would feed the magic for you
On my mind constantly
In my arms is where you should be

I love you here by me, baby
You let my love fly free
I want you in my life for all time

Caught up in the repture of love
Nothing else can compare
When I feel the magic of you

We stand side by side
Till the storms of life pass us by
Light my life, warm my heart
Say tonight will be just the start

I love you here by me, baby
you let my love fly free
I want you im my life for all time

Caught up in the rapture of love
Nothing else can compare
When I feel the magic of you
The feeling's always new
Caught up in the rapture of you

I love you here by me, baby
You let my love fly free
I want you in my life for all time


Caught up in the rapture of love
Caught up in the rapture of love



As most couples would agree, it is a cuddly day today because of the nice drizzles that makes it more easy to be next to each other than the previous humid days.

Can't blame them for wanting to be close to each other as often as possible...it is after all human nature to want to tickle the senses to increase flow of endorphines making us feel more in the mood for loving.

So, don't hate the rain especially if it's as harmless as constant drizzles. Because somewhere somehow love is blossoming, if not within your circle it is within your world.


Tuesday, August 17, 2010


Caring is instantaneous with loving. One cannot stop oneself from worrying over big and small things that concerns his/her love one. We just have to be definite that we do everything we can to preserve their lives, to give them whatever possible we can offer to make living easy for them...even if we are no longer there to provide that to them. Thus arose Life Insurances.

But then, we usually get caught up with our daily routines, that more often than not we almost have no time left to go to the establishment and fill-up bundles of papers and stay a few more hours to have a complete medical check-up just so we get to be approved...until we really had no time left and the chance to have one passed us by. In the end, our love one suffers the burden, therefore our goal of making it easy for them was not fulfilled.

Good news though...now there is this Life Insurance No Medical Exam. Yes, you can do it all online, and be insured in no time. Why wait when you can do it today, and move on with life with no worries.


Saturday, August 14, 2010

In a relationship it is vital that there is a deeper root that joins a couple. It's not just the idea of having someone to make the half of your heart be filled in. There has to be friendship. There has to be common ground connecting them for them to have innumerable topics to talk about...because in the latter years, that's almost all that's left for you to keep the love flowing - talking and sharing.



I believe it to be human nature for us to try our very best to go on pleasing our love ones. May it be for providing emotional needs, physical needs...and even when it pertains to the material needs. We give our all when it comes to pleasing the one we love.

And it's not easy doing so in the world we live in where there are the common obstacles like pride, envy, anger, jealousy and all those other negative walls that surrounds a relationship. But still, we try to fight it off by putting them before ourselves; when we try to stretch out our patience and understanding; when we selflessly love them and shower them with every little thing we think that can please them.

Within this concept is the gifts and surprises that we grab for them to have physical proof of that love. I admit that I myself tend to do just that whenever I can. And thanks to those heavenly sent vouchers that makes it a little more worthwhile knowing you have been offered the best deal for something you really like. One concrete example is this 75% OFF for shoes for him/her. One does not need an occasion to have such big discount. What of Dell vouchers that can be awfully handy when you think to give him/her the most wanted gift, laptop or notebook with the Dell netbook review. Pleasing someone does not have to be expensive, and taking up on offers such as these are just something each and everyone of us can benefit from. Start looking at all of the available deals... you never know, you might have been buying things somewhere and not know you could have gotten them at a much much lower cost.



"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they're right. You believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." by Marilyn Monroe

Dare I say anything more when Marilyn Monroe says it all in just a few words. She I believe each and everyone of them...HOW ABOUT YOU?

STAY by Lisa Loeb

Saturday, August 7, 2010


This is what we need most in a relationship...THE WORDS! Not too much or too little..but enough to tell what needs to be told at the right time. Not before nor after the time of your being together but DURING. When you are not regretting that you have done so or have let it pass you by.

...and hear not just the words uttered BUT what the actions imply for more often than not ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN VOICE.

you say I only hear what I want to.
you say I talk so all the time so.

and I thought what I felt was simple,
and I thought that I don't belong,
and now that I am leaving,
now I know that I did something wrong 'cause I missed you.
yeah, I missed you.

and you say I only hear what I want to:
I don't listen hard,
I don't pay attention to the distance that you're running
or to anyone, anywhere,
I don't understand if you really care,
I'm only hearing negative: no, no, no.

so I turned the radio on, I turned the radio up,
and this woman was singing my song:
the lover's in love, and the other's run away,
the lover is crying 'cause the other won't stay.

some of us hover when we weep for the other who was
dying since the day they were born.
well, this is not that:
I think that I'm throwing, but I'm thrown.

and I thought I'd live forever, but now I'm not so sure.

you try to tell me that I'm clever,
but that won't take me anyhow, or anywhere with you.

you said that I was naive,
and I thought that I was strong.
I thought, "hey, I can leave, I can leave."
but now I know that I was wrong, 'cause I missed you.

you said, "You caught me 'cause you want me and one day you'll let me go."
"you try to give away a keeper, or keep me 'cause you know you're just so scared to lose.
and you say, "stay."

you say I only hear what I want to.



Very first thing that comes to mind when asked of my dream wedding is "THE ring!!! In my mind I see it in the glass showcase, my heart pounding, and my insides screaming "This is it! This is how I can shout to the world that someone love me way too much to make me his...forever!"

Every woman deserves a little more than the words i love you, and a little more than saying I do. A great deal more than just a tumble in the hay and much much more than the promises from the lips. The proof of being loved more than any other and being valued to be given something you cannot just get any other day. The wedding ring (and even engagement ring for some) signifies not the financial status of the beloved man, but the pride of that same man of his woman. That with that ring, he shouts to the world that he belong to no other but her, and that she to him as well.

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