...NOT YOUR WORLD

Thursday, April 22, 2010

 

Don't let someone become your everything,
because when they're gone you have nothing!
by Kenya Mitchell

I agree! Speaking from experience, my world became empty when we had to part ways. Letting him revolve around your world will be so much better than the other way around. Or better yet, live it with him not for him...

It is often in a relationship that we love our better half so much that we tend to change for them, be where he wants us to be, do what he wants to do, even eat what he wants to eat sometimes. Remember that we are TWO different individuals. We may grow together, we may live together...but we need to have a line in between when it comes to the person that we are.

You can make it happen if you both love each other the same way. If you want a relationship to last, there should be no controlling...instead continue on with the freedom of enjoying life TOGETHER and INDIVIDUALLY also.

4 comments:

Yen said...

Ouch! But you know what sis, when I was in love before I have made him occupied my world without my knowing that I am making him my everything so it was so hard for me when we part ways. super ouch! but I have overcome it already hehe. I just laugh at myself stupidity whenever I remember my past. waahhh!!!

analou said...

Me and my husband are very open to each other. I saw him several time crying when I was sad because of bad news I heard from my family in the philippines. Para sa akin I respect and love him more because of that....He is emotional and sensitive too like me.

By MelCole of PA said...

Yep, you're right, don't give everything right away. Be gentle at times, and enjoy each other's company and love.

lina@happy family said...

My hubby is a sentimental person. He cries if seeing sad scenes...

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