DATE EWAN MCGREGOR, DATE A SCOTT

You cannot just believe that love will come your way. What if it does not? What if it passes another route and missed seeing you at the waiting line? SEARCH FOR HIM. Search for the possibility that you will meet your soul mate, the love of your life. Find a way, create a path to make things work. And it is not just making yourself available to chance. Dating Edinburgh makes you available to the eyes of your probable partner in life.

He may not be on the neighborhood, he may not be within your circle of friends, he may not be in your work area. For all you know he may be half way across the globe. Another race, another eye color. A Scot. How would you feel if it was Ewan Mcgregor, Sean Connery, Dougray Scott or another of those gorgeous celebrity Scots, and you let it pass you by?

Life is full of surprises. Let this popular dating site surprise you with the HIM you are hoping for your him to be.

RECEIVE A BUNCH

A woman is worth more than a bunch...
but it definitely will be appreciated to be given some.

RESULT: POSITIVE

Your heartbeat is like hoof beats in the horse races men adore. Wild, loud, fast...racing! Your mouth drooped and your world turned upside down when you opened that piece of paper revealing the result you never thought you will be reading for a million years. You never thought you will be having such a test and it will read...

POSITIVE

For a time reality will not sink in just yet. Then as if you are in some game show and one by one it will be revealed to you. YOU HAVE IT. Flashing would be memories of the fun you have been having. Maybe you have been a little naughty, but maybe you were truly in love. Maybe you know he has it, maybe you don't. alright, analyze. Think it through. Then let it go.

Acceptance is what really matters. You have to concede to the fact that you cannot turn back time. You have it but IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD. Life can still go on. Listen and listen hard...

Positive Singles: You Are Not Alone!

Veneral Disease (VD) or Sexually Transmitted Disease(STD) are not alien words to our society today. In fact it is getting very common. Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Syphilis, Genital herpes, Genital Warts, HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis, Crabs are the most common STD's. Some of these can be cured with antibiotics if there is early detection. HIV/AIDS, Hepatitis, Herpes, and Genital Warts are those that cannot be cured but can be managed. They can, however, SPREAD.

And this is the reason POSITIVE SINGLES feels defeated when diagnosed to have it. Yes, that is the consequence but again IT IS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD.

Positive Singles: You Are Not Alone!

You want to be with the people you will feel comfortable with. They who you believe will understand you more than anybody else. You would be surprise to find that you have more in common than just that earth shuttering result. Your preferences, your joy, your emotions, your beliefs...feel free once again. No guilt, no hesitations. Meet people. Meet them who makes you whole again.

LONG DISTANCE LOVE AFFAIR

Can such a thing as a Long Distance Love Affair Work?

FOR YOUR WEDDING RECEPTION...

When a couple decides to seal their bonds with wedding, it always is a dream come true to overdo it. It is after all once in a life time. An event that you will cherish forever as you will cherish loving each other. And it is pleasing both, and everyone else to the tiniest detail. If you have something to remember, remember it with a big smile on your lips and a bright glow in your heart.

The reception that follows the ceremony definitely is worth more than just the ordinary. You want it personalized, you want it how you have always wanted it to be. But there is just so much to think about. With your wedding coordinator or just with the help of your love ones, you can come up with the best wedding by seeking who offers the best. The wedding cake for one...it has to be the best. Be glad that there are wedding cake designs available that gives just the kind you want. A cake that is as special as your are. It has to be unique. It has to garner "ooh's" and "ahh's" and not "oh its like Annie's".

It is the time of the day to enjoy each and everyone of your special guests and the best way to thank them is to provide them for celebrating the occasion with you is to treat them with superb food. Look no further than the wedding food ideas that can trim down your wide array of likes to the best there is.

It's not easy to prepare a wedding...but it's a lot of fun if you just know where to look that best fits your preference.

BOTH WINS

"Love is a game that two can play and both win."
- Eva Gabor

AFTER A SPLIT UP

You almost can't believe this happening. After years of being together, your other half is not yours to keep any more. Your everyday routine of waking up to a sweet text message of "take care on the way to work", the phone calls at work, the lunch time dates, the awaited time of finally seeing him after work...all just suddenly changed and you miss all of it. You miss him.

BUT no matter how you feel your world up side down, you have to let go. He is not meant for you. That no matter how you want him back, you know that when you go back to him it will just be as before. The fight will recur, the broken hearts, the broken spirit. It is best for the both of you to separate and be whole again while you still both can pick up the shattered pieces of you the relationship did shatter.

But there's so much reminder of him at home. The years of exchanging of gifts expressing love and care is everywhere. But you have to admit that you don't want to give it away. You truly want those things. The beanbag by your bed you cuddle in while you watch a movie, a cabinet full of hug-able toys, the clothes...everything. It's just that you need more time to adjust first. Where can you keep it out of site for a time being? There is a place like Storage Reading Cow Lane where you can put them in without fear of losing them. They have varying sizes depending on need. It can be long or short term. You have a key access anytime. They even offer free van hire to pick up and deliver your stuffs.

What a nice idea to keep those things for the time being...until you're ready to face it all again without breaking down.

SEARCHING FOR "HIM"

"I'm Okay!"

It seems that you're getting so used to saying it that even you are starting to believe it. But as you sat watching the deep orange horizon turns velvet gray and the noise of the day calming down to calmness, doubt started rising in the inner recesses of your soul. Am I really okay?

As if you need to make this unsettling feeling leave you and the serenity you felt earlier, you take a deep breath and exhale for it to ride with the chilly wind passing you by. Still, your heart seems to leak of the tears you hide beneath dry eyes. Why were you created with such a big heart when you have no one to give it to? Where is he?

Believing that the soul inside you have this yearning for its match, you feel the loss of someone. Not emptiness, but a fullness suppressed to the point of bursting out. You crave for a comforting hug, you thirst being the focus of someones undivided attention, you wish to be in that dream you had last night of staring back to someones loving eyes devouring you.

Yet life has to go on. And you have to spare yourself from misery therefore you decided to convince yourself and others that you're okay. Focusing instead on those things that keeps you busy and reminding yourself why you are so lucky...in minutes you smile and say "I'm okay!"

BUT...until when?

FLAMES

Years have passed since you last have written FLAMES at the back of your notebook with your name parallel to the name of your crush. After picking out common letters between you two, you count each number of slashed letter for each of your names and add them together like you do in a math equation in school. The blush that comes up results from the corresponding letter you get as you do the counting in the word flames...F for friends, L for lovers, A for angry, M for marriage, E for enemy and S for sweetheart.

IF ONLY its as easy as the letters F, L, A, M, E, S!

In puppy love and teenage crush probably. But we are thousands of miles away from that kind of a relationship. We are now here in the stage of responsibility, commitment, and till death do us part. If there is something you are writing, its more of the signing of legal papers; and adding up of mortgages and bills payments are the common mathematical problems that is now being solved.

At times we tend to sigh and say, "How nice it would be to go back to a much simpler life."

YOU AND YOUR MAN

Have you seen couples wearing the same of everything? Twins you may say. Its maybe their way of showing the world that they belong together. That they are already one and the same. That the similarity does not end with how they look but with what they like.

It may be from the same Guess attire, the same TechnoMarine watches, to the same Timberland boots, Timberland Stiefel and Timberland Schuhe. It is the comfort of knowing that you and your man attract. Not everyone can do this. Some does not want to be overly obvious. Some prefers uniqueness and having their own personal choice.

But everyone is unique in their own way. They like what you don't, hate what you do. What matters is that you and your man is comfortable in what you do as a couple and as an individual. You should not even try...it should come out naturally. Effortless. Then can you only say that you really do belong together.

TOO YOUNG

A wonderful song me and my little one loves.

TOO YOUNG by Nat King Cole

They try to tell us we're too young
Too young to really be in love
They say that love's a word
A word we've only heard
But can't begin to know the meaning of

And yet we're not too young to know
This love will last though years may go
And then some day they may recall
We were not too young at all

[Instrumental Interlude]

And yet we're not too young to know
This love will last though years may go
And then some day they may recall
We were not too young at all

FOR PRIVACY

You cannot very well post "KEEP OUT" or "DO NOT DISTURB" signs on all sides of your house. If you are trying to have privacy, you definitely go quiet about it and not get more attention by posting too obvious signs.

And when you say privacy, you are hoping not to be seen from the other side. You are hoping for other eyes to NOT have even a tiny peek of you sleeping from outside (or whatever else you're doing...wink!) And you will not be putting transparent curtains or may be dark but movable drapes that can easily sway with the incoming breeze if you want to be sure. Instead you will have these roman blinds that are used more and more for its beauty and purpose: privacy.