Friday, September 4, 2009


WRONG! You can! I can, in fact I did!

TIME is the essence. You can’t hurry the process, because healing and moving on takes time. You can look back at your past as a learning endeavor. You can both reminisce and mess about it. Can even lightly recount the positive and negative outcomes of previous reactions, approach, behavior or feelings. This can be another advantageous sport to life’s tribulation.

But with this comes open-mindedness, sensibility,… even humor to fate. And believe me, it’s rewarding! The friendship that will come of it is something to treasure. Because you’ve been more than friends with them before, and you both know each other more than any common friend does. You’ve been through rough times…and being friends now meant you survived it!


S-H-Y said...

very inspiring words :P..

The girl with the flour in her hair said...

I've also managed this and it is wonderful. It did take several years and both of us to find another "true love" but it was accomplished. We chat when we're both on line, we've met for lunch, he's met my children.

It is a special relationship and I'm glad I'm able to have it. :)

Nice post.

MarlyMS said...

I do not think I can be friends with my ex-bf's :) I will just remember their cheating :)

i am glad you liked my flip flops. they're so adorable, aren't they? i bought them at Old Navy.

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