Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Are you the type that jumps from one relationship to another, being strong enough to move on and not dwell on the past believing that if it's not meant to be then find which one is?!

Or are you amongst those who makes sure, either being doubly careful not wanting to get hurt or probably have gone through it so many times already that you are careful of breaking your heart once again? Or it's just possible that you are just very much aware of the possibilities and would want to do everything right the first time?!

I have been both, actually. In my younger days, when I knew that I'm too young for truly serious relationships to the point of ending up in a wedding ceremony right away, I can psyche myself into moving on though not outright "new" man. I move on by going back on track with or without being involved once again. At the latter part, I am now more experienced with life and knows that TIME matters. That in time, it will all be revealed to you what the best to do and of what you both really feel.


lina@home sweet home said...

I have experienced deeply sad broken heart. You're right; time can reveal my wound and I met new love :)

Mommy Mayonnaise said...

Time gives us experiences which lead to maturity and self awareness.
Beautiful thought, as usual, Jen :)

kikat said...

Love this post Jenie. =) I'm the first type actually, but not in relationship stuffs, but in decisions in life, I'd rather move on, I don't dwell too long in the past, life has a lot to offer. I better spend my time and energy in the present and see what the future holds for me rather than keep thinking of the past that has already passed, can't take it back anymore anyway... thanks for this wonderful post Jen =)

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